Ok ladies i love you, but you gotta make sense of your actions sometimes. What is the purpouse of asking your man a question, when no matter what he answers you're gonna ge mad? If you see a girl and you tell your man "would you sleep with her? be honest", no matter what we answer you get mad. If we say "no" you get mad because we aren't being honest, if we say "yes" you get mad because we said yes and were being honest. If we say "you're the only one for me" you get mad because we aren't being honest again. Why?
2006-07-05 05:10:52 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The chances of hell freezing over is more probable than men understanding women!
Women only come in 1 mode, insecure, lacking confidence & R more complicated than a badly translated Japanese Video Recorder instruction manual.
2006-07-05 05:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
Well, I don't believe in asking questions like that, but a lot of women do. It probably has something to do with the fact that they think they know the answer, which is you would, but they want to hear an answer that will make them feel better. However, since they already think the answer is yes, saying no makes them mad. It's a vicious cycle. Since she's going to get mad anyway, you could always say something like "I don't know, maybe. Why, would you?" It could be funny, but she probably wouldn't like it much.
2006-07-05 05:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mustang L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your women you pick out are WAY to emotional and confusing! I am a girl and I am nothing like that! But I'll try to help ya out... first of all women like to feel like they are number one to their boyfriends. Actions speak louder than words a lot of time- so if she sees you sneaking a peek at another girl shes gunna ask if shes pretty or if you would sleep with her. And I think everybody will agree with me on this one- if she does ask you these questions then ALWAYS answer that she's the number one and no other girl compares to her. Personally I think when girls ask these questions it shows an extreme amount of immaturity. So just remember that you put her in front of everything, or make it look like you are, and don't be looking at other girls when she's around! And to that question of when will men ever figure out women... I'll letcha in on a little secret- women haven't even figured themselves out yet! So men probably have to wait until Jesus returns!
2006-07-05 05:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by JoHanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be able to figure women out. NEVER. So stop trying, deal with the reality of it and accept the fact that women are mysterious creatures. Women ask those questions to see if you will be honest. So be honest, even if at first they might seem upset, they will like that you have the guts to tell it like it is.
2006-07-05 05:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it, it's not going to happen. But then again, I don't know of a single woman who can understand men, so consider it even.
It's just like the "Do these pants make me look fat?" question. If you say no you're a liar no matter what, if you say yes, they hate you and if you don't answer you're avoiding them and must hate them. Just suck it up and deal the best you can and start thinking of really original answers that will make them pause and think.
2006-07-05 05:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mikey S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was no mystery, we'd just be another one of the guys. And, every woman who's ever been "one of the guys" can tell you that guys are not interested in having relationships with girls they JUST hang out with.
Men are like, "Wow. We have so much fun together. Let's not ruin it by having a 'relationship.' But, if you wanna' just have sex, I'm up for that."
If you can explain THAT to all women, maybe you'd be the hero of the day!
2006-07-05 05:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be able to figure us out. That is all part of the mystery of women that keeps men interested. If you knew everything, or how to find out everything, you'd get bored with us, and you wouldn't want us anymore. Most of us should stay a mystery anyways. So don't stress on trying to figure out everything about us gals. Enjoy a little mystery, that's what keeps things interesting.
2006-07-05 05:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will understand us when they stop trying to know us as a gender and start getting to know us as individuals and we'll understand them when we do the same.
Personally, I've never played those games with my man (or anyone else, for that matter.) I can't imagine what I could possibly get out of it, other than dumped on the spot and I know I wouldn't want to waste my time on someone who got off on setting me up like that.
2006-07-05 05:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are the same my friend.
I am not that hard to figure out. Some "girls" play games with men to get something. But that separate girls from women. Maybe because they do not trust their husband/boyfriend. I trust mine. He goes to strip clubs to the bars. What do I care? He is coming home to me. And if he does not...well I am not totally helpless. I do not have to sit home and cry about it. I play the same games men do. I am basically one of you with different equipment.
Relationships are give and take. We have to meet in the middle. I have to let him have his life..and he has to let me have mine. Then there is ours. No fuc*ing games. Sometimes he sees some chic on the street...and I know he would love to screw her. I am not stupid. The same way when I see some fine piece of ***...he knows I would sleep with him. But we both know we will not...unless one of us crosses the line.
I guess, all in all, it just depends on the strength of the relationship you are in...and the maturity of said "girl"
2006-07-05 05:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by fro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We women are complicate creators,the next time a girl ask you that kind of question tell them why would ask me that kind of question when you know no matter what i say it going to get you so drop it.trust me that the best answer you can give her if demand you give an answer talk about something else,or don't say anything at all.
2006-07-05 05:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by omiatu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl asks u something u don't want to answer, either answer it with a question or don't answer the question directly. The correct answer to the question ur girl ask'd u (Would u sleep with her?) would be "Do u think she can get down like you do?"
Always try to flatter ur girl when she asks silly questions like that! Girls are crazy, thats why ya'll love us!
2006-07-05 05:18:50 · answer #11 · answered by AfroSistah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋