I have a cheapskate bf. So, when he pays for the date he gets sex. When I pay for it he does not. How many guys or gals have done this. I figure if he had to go and pay for a bj or sex it would cost him a lot more then it would taking me out.
2006-07-05 05:00:41 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you are saying YOU have to give something to get something but when you give you get NOTHING???? Something is definitely wrong with that picture. Find you a man that will cherish you and want nothing but to love you in return. Men like that really don't stay around long they usually look for someone that will take care of them so they can keep their money in their own pockets.
You have the RED flag don't ignore it.
2006-07-05 05:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by heavenly28001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't use sex as a reward for a date! If you are consenting adults then you should know that it will eventually pull you apart because of the dependance on superficial love. IF you are teens, you should be more careful and build the relationship on loving one another and not trying to "feel like adults". Don't be in a hurry to grow up, enjoy your youth, but don't use sex as repayment or as a weapon. It will only take away respect that a person has for you.
2006-07-05 05:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by joe_on_drums 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If a guy doesn't pay he doesn't get a second date. Only have sex if you want to and not as a payback. If he thinks he is paying for sex, then make sure to charge him about 100 dollars for the sex.
2006-07-05 05:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have to pay in order to not have sex with him, he expects you to have sex with him if he takes you out?!? How long have you let him get away with treating you this way? Does this sound like a healthy relationship to you?
2006-07-05 05:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all i am 18 i have a baby but i fell that is so wrong you should'nt have to pay for anything if you are is girl friend baby he just with you for your sex he just want you goodies take it from i woman ben there did that done that. but all i can say baby don't be a fool keep your head up.cause it's days i just sit and wish i was'nt having sex.but baby just keep your head up if you need any advice call me at3183498043 ask for diva well i am running out of words love don't forget what i said.p.s. one more thing if you are still with his butt leave him alone he don't mean you no damgood!well i am out .keep your head up love
2006-07-07 19:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so wrong on so many levels! Drop the looser and get with someone who will treat you like a real woman. Someone you want to have sex with even if he hasn't bought or paid for anything!
2006-07-05 05:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by BluBrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm when money gets in the way, kind of in this situation, the relationship suffers like hell.
If he's sooo cheapskate, and you can't deal with it, you gotta have something else than prize and punition system... like you pay once, he pays once, or something that's only money related.
And no, that never happened to me before
2006-07-05 05:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a little sick, but if you are fine with it then I guess it is your call. Paying for sex is not cool at all. Sounds to me you need to find a better boyfriend.
2006-07-05 05:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by smohs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you're still with him? Its time to move on. Sex is a shared event based on the feelings and emotions shared between two people. If he's treating you like a cheap hooker, then its not worth it.
2006-07-05 05:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a bizzare way to look at things. You should have sex as a way to express your emotion, not as a payout for what you got. If getting taken out is that important and your boyfriend doesn't or can't deliver get out...for both of your sakes.
2006-07-05 05:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋