Okay...I met this guy this summer...not really knowing he had a girlfriend because he didn't really act like he did!! Later I find out that his girlfriend is a girl that goes to my school and I have talked to before!! He has told me that he likes me alot and that he would break up with his girlfriend but doesnt know how to and that she has done nothing for him to break up with her! But he talks about her all the time and when she calls he tells me to be quiet so she can't hear! But what shall I do because I am not goin to be a part of this anymore if he doesn't get rid of the girlfriend! What shall I say to him or do??? This is gettin out of hand!
2006-07-05 04:49:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him. he is just stringing you along. if he lied to you about her what else has he lied about. he is not worth your time.
2006-07-05 05:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you should be ashamed of your self, i'm sure you're a pretty nice girl and you deserve more than what you're looking for, you need to think about your actions girl, don't you think if he breaks up with her for you, he will do the same thing to you once he find somebody else he like just like right now? Have you ever ask your self that question. Anywayz the decision is in your hand and if you don't wanna get hurt or get your heart broken you better forget about that boy and find somebody who truelly loves you and cares about you.
2006-07-05 04:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to have a man all to yourself. I know it seems like he is the only guy who will ever be this nice to you, but there are plenty of guys who would love to lavish ALL their attention on a nice girl like you. He doesn't want to leave her if he is making you whisper, I have no idea why he is hurting you like this - but you need to tell him to stop. High School has enough drama without feeling like some boy's mistress. He is not worth it, I know he is probably very charming, but he really is not mature enough for you. God Bless and may you find a Man who truly loves you soon.
2006-07-05 05:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanne- LEAVES Military Ministry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like a plot for a good drama....
if you stay in this relationship..either u'll end up as a *****, ho, slut....
or you'll end-up as girlfriend
given the situation, I'd say getout of it....the guy needs you for booty call and after that you'll be awarded ***** of the year.
you have brains....look over it and decide...if the guy is not honest from the start...what do you think he'll be honest later
(sorry for being rude...but we live in a real world...so try to live in reality rather than fantasy)
good luck!
2006-07-05 04:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, in my generation, that was called playing the field. He wants her and you at the same time. Tell him he can't have it that way and walk out of his life.
2006-07-05 04:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's either you or her! period. so if he thinks that you are better than his girlfriend then he will break up with her at the spot, but if he continues to cheat on his girlfriend and also be with you then I think that is too much and its wrong! guys shouldn't cheat on thier girlfriends or whatever!
2006-07-05 04:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by ninjadude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say I think this guy is just messing you about. Sounds like he's enjoying having his cake and eating it :(
Dump him whilst you still can.
Good luck!
2006-07-05 05:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dusky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're stupid, you shouldn't have gotten into it in the first place. why would you want a man to leave his girl for you?!! he would do the same to you one day and you'll feel just as bad as his girl that he with now. that's just to low to wait for a man to leave someone for you. there's so much fish in the sea and you're fishing for the worst.
2006-07-05 05:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Miss X♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't have any part of this guy. Chances of him doing the same to you are high.
2006-07-05 04:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT HE IS PLAYING WITH YOU. I HAD SIMILAR EXPERINCESS AND I GUESS (NOT THAT IT IS LIKE THAT) THAT HE IS USING JUST EXCUSES. A GUY WHO REALLY WANTS TO BE WITH YOU, SHOULD BE GIRLFRIENDLESS AND ALL INTO YOU. I HOPE THIS WORKS THE BEST FOR YOU.
2006-07-05 04:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by nvpm79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a boyfriend but keep him on the side for sex... nothing wrong with a little booty call on the side
2006-07-05 04:56:46 · answer #11 · answered by Prmami4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋