am late 20ies but am still a vigin what can i do?

Answer 1

you don't have to do anything if you don't want to. But if you don't want to be a virgin anymore, find a guy friend and get to it!

Answer 2

date

Answer 3

What's the big deal? You haven't found a man who met your fancy yet. I don't think that you should lower your standards, just to "do it, get it over with, so that I can feel normal and be like everyone else," (or whatever else it is that you may be thinking--after all, I'm not a mind-reader).

It may just be that you will never find a man who interests you in that way. And that sould be OK, not a source of shame.

Let me put it this way:
I do not regret hardly anything that I've done, sexually.
I waited until I was of a legal age before I "did it."
After that, for personal reasons, I chose to be very "loose," sexually, and just do as I pleased. --With "whomever."
And, looking back over three to four decades of sexual activity, I have to say that NOT ONE MAN was someone whom I could look back at and say, "Oh, my life would not have been quite as rich if I'd never met him and f----d him!" Really: Not one man was such a wonderful relationship and/or experience that I can look back and say that if I'd had my life to live over again, I'd try to make sure to meet him again.

I was flabbergasted by the power of that bit of self-evaluation and self-discovery. But I'll pass it on to you, because I want you to know that you're not REALLY missing much of anything by being a virgin. Yes, you're missing some fleeting pleasures, but you're also missing some disappointment, feelings of ennui, anger, frustration, bad outcomes, etc. I'm not saying, "Stay a virgin--don't do it!" I'm just saying that it's not necessarily all that it's cracked up to be, and that you can live a good, full life without it.

Answer 4

Don't go have sex with just anyone just to have the experience. Some men will find your standards to be very honorable and will respect you because of it.

If your looking for a serious relationship or even are marriage minded. Why not put an ad on the net, something like Yahoo personals (I met my fiance' there). If you do the personal ad thing, be honest in the ad. Don't advertise that you are a virgin, just say you are "marriage minded" or looking for a serious long term relationship. Also be sure to post your photo on the ad, might as well only get responses from men that find you attractive rather than meeting someone and then they decide they don't like you just because of your look.

There is someone out there for you and its just a matter of figuring out how to put yourself someplace where the right guy will notice you.

Answer 5

First ask yourself the question "Are you ok with being a virgin in your late 20's?" If so then continue living your life and dont dwell on it. If you have a problem with it then, get out there and start dating. Go to resturaunts, bars, online dating sites, or even your church! I'm sure you can find someone if you put yourself out there. Dont rush into having sex. Be smart about any decision you make. Sex really isnt all what it is hyped up to be. Bring protection!

Answer 6

Being a virgin is not a problem that you need to do something about. If you find a good man that will be a good father and husband then marry and be glad he is your only one. When the two of you embrace you won't have memories of other men or start comparing him to other sex partners. Even better, you will have no emotional baggage or worries about possible STD's and other nasty "skeletons."

If you find you are not called to be married, remain a virgin since sexual relations are for husband and wife. Sex makes babies so only those willing to commit to each other and to the rearing of children should engage in it.

Answer 7

If you just got-to-have-it, go get it, but in the long run you'll be happy you waited for the right person. If you just can't stand it any longer...come to Ohio, I'll be glad to help you or I understand that Arkansas is the "Land of Opportunity" and Tennessee is a "Volunteer" state, I'm sure someone would "Volunteer" to do you, and I understand if you just want to be an exhibitionist, Missouri is a "Show Me" state.

Answer 8

There is nothing wrong with you still being a virgin, you should be very proud and when the time comes for you to lose it make sure it is to someone whom really love and want to be with because people should take more pride in there bodies just as you have.

Answer 9

Be proud of yourself. We are supposed to have sex within a marriage. And you will feel so special if you wait for that special someone. You don't want to risk your health just to get rid of your virginity. Especially with the risk of getting HPV! It is a silent std that can cause warts and even cancer. I had it as cervical cancer and I almost had to have a hysterectomy at 19. Most people have it with no symptoms. Please be proud of yourself and you will have much more enjoyment knowing that your husband was truely your one and only!

Answer 10

I'm proud of you, hopefully you will inspire more people live a life of respect and honor. I would recommend to you and the rest of the readers to get a book called, "Kissed the Girls and Made them Cry". This book will explain exactly why you should stay a virgin until marriage.

Answer 11

celebrate the fact that you are not a cheap tart that will sleep with anything that moves.

are you female?

I know a man who is late 20's and still a virgin and he is lovely. Would you like me to arrange for you to meet him?

Don't worry about it, the right person will come along. Keep proud xxxx