My gf, is still kinda close with her ex, i trust her and everything, but somtimes whn she mentions him, it just like, i dnt wanna knw, i dnt say tht but i thk it. Am i being pathetic?, how wud every1 esle look at it?
2006-07-05 04:19:10 · 6 answers · asked by ads 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
same way, no one likes to hear about ex's!
2006-07-05 04:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by jayhawk1124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think your girlfriend is inconsiderate with you, I mean why would she be talking to you about her ex in the first place? Either there's something you don't know about or she just doesn't realize that talking about an ex is not what you wanna hear!
Look just be straight with her, tell her you prefer not to talk about her ex, if she gets upset or something, then that means there was probably still something between them, I mean if she cares for you she will realize that she was hurting you when she was still talking about him........but like I said if she reacts the other way, just let her go.......Try not to give your heart too soon....It happens to me all the time, and trust me the results are not pretty, not pretty at all! Good Luck!
2006-07-05 11:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by hey_tiger_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, tell her how you feel. It's really the best thing to do. And she has to respect that you are in the relationship and not the ex.
2006-07-05 11:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. No one likes hearing about their current boy/girl friends ex's.
2006-07-05 11:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural to be jealous about that
but you have to tell her how you feel because maybe she still has feelings for her ex and you need to find out before you get hurt
2006-07-05 11:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her
2006-07-05 11:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mounir O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋