hey girls, when someone comes close to u , flirting or whatever how can u know whether he's seeking for a serious relationship or not , as early as possible?
2006-07-05 04:11:59 · 18 answers · asked by repentant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he comes on too strong and by his choice of words.
2006-07-05 04:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that hard to tell. 6th since.
Not all girl can tell at all I have some girlfriends that keep getting hurt this way. But I sometimes enjoy a onetime stand but I only enjoy onetime stands with guys that don't act all cool and stuff that's what I hate the most.
Most of the time the girl knows you from your prior relationships or seeing you flirt around the bar and stuff. If I don't know the person It can talk up to a day to know for sure.
2006-07-05 11:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the things he says to you. If the first things he says to you is about sex or has a sexual meaning behind it, you can bet that he doesn't want a serious relationship. All he is looking at is what is on the outside and could care less what type of person you are. If he actually talks to you like a human being and is able to hold conversations with you and is genuinely interested in what you think and say and do, then I would say that it's pretty safe in assuming he wants to take things further.
2006-07-05 11:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.....Well unfortunately there's no real way of knowing that, everyone is different and everyone does things in so many different ways.....The real way to find that out is to treat the person, and then you'll know for sure, but it's very hard to tell what someone really wants, the only way is by asking, because only they know what's in their head! Good Luck!
2006-07-05 11:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by hey_tiger_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like this girls watch boys closley without youll knowing....so we pay mo attention to your background.....as like if i know a boy is a big time flirt and he comes up to me flirting with me then i know hes basically trying to et some booty....but most boys that like a girl and wants to get something more than sex will respect your space they still flirt but they will respect you as a women....Such as they approach you, smile, not groping or trying to cop a free feel and talk to you.Boys who just want booty will grope you try rubbing or talk a lil to freaky to only known you for 2 minutes. A boy who wants a serous relationship will show you in his presense and by his actions acting polite and respecting your space
2006-07-05 11:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by scarletcutiecajunqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally i can see it in his facial expression if his eyes are warm and soft and look caring and if his smile is very friendly i typically take that as a guy seeking for a serious realtionship. When a guy approaches me and has hard eyes and sly smile i think he is just looking for a one night stand. depending on what i'm in the mood for i will look for the guy that best suits me and the way i feel that night.
2006-07-05 11:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front with the guys you are talking to. Ask them what they are looking for in a relationship right now, and tell them what you are looking for. What do you have to lose?
2006-07-05 11:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by rlms_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its person's eyes that speak all the truth,girls can know a person through expressions,body language,behaviour and most importantly through eyes!
2006-07-05 11:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ruchika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to know yourself first and then set boundaries for yourself and any man that may come into your life. You must respect yourself always and accept no less from any man.
2006-07-05 11:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by explorer_intelligentadventure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is flirting, I never read anything more into it. I assume it's just that...flirting.
2006-07-05 11:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋