Should I have sex...?

Question

it is very funny but every girl i meet is trying to get on over me,..., i am 16 and i really am not sure if i have sex at this stage of life

can i have a good advice please

Answer 1

My I advice is the following:

HAVE IT, OR YOU ARE GOING TO REGRET IR FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!

When you are 30 you will say: Why didn't I have sex when I was 16 if it is such a good thing and it makes me feel so fine?

Trust me, you r gonna love it.

Of course, always taking care, you know what I mean ;)

Good luck!

Answer 2

Well it's up to you. I think you may answerd your own question. You have stated that you are unsure. This means that you don't want to do this at this point in your life. Don't let anyone presure you into it.

If you start now chances are the first one you do this with will not be the love of your life and then their will be a second, a third and so on. Most, not all young people that engage in sex don't use protection. This puts you at risk. Yes there are condoms but nothing is 100%.

You tell those girls that you have more respect for them and yourself then to do something that your not ready for. You would like to get to know them not their bodys. Those girls are used to boys who wouldn't stick around if they don't have sex.

Girls can be very insecure and think that sex is the answer to keep the guy and to feel better about themselves.

You have your entire life ahead of you and one day you can proudly say that you haven't had many partners in your life time, which when your older you will be a good catch for those woman that don't want to be with someone who has had multiple partners.

Stand your ground!

Answer 3

Just the fact that you are asking other people if you should, proves you shouldn't. Sex shouldn't be something you do just because everyone else is doing it. It should come about after you are in a loving, caring, giving relationship and you are BOTH ready to commit. There is a lot more to sex than just the act itself, and I think a lot of the kids today don't realize that. That's why there are so many confused kids out there. They sleep with someone and then think that is love, but they don't have a clue! I would suggest you hold off on having sex until you are in a long term relationship that is at least heading towards marriage.

Answer 4

Well I think this is very good. You are an attractive guy and there is nothing wrong with this. Now as regards sex, well I don't think there would be any problem if you have sex at this age. I have heard a lot of my friends say that they have had sex for the first time, when they were 15-16. it always depends on the person.
Good luck and enjoy it

Answer 5

You are 16, so this means that you are still in high school. Look around and see other teenagers who had sex too early and see what it did to their lives. I'm not saying if you have sex you will get the girl pregnant, but the chance is high that she will become pregnant. If you feel that you are ready, then I think it would be best to sit down with your parents or another adult you trust and talk to them about this.

Answer 6

Absolutly not!! It's takes a real leader to say "i am who i am. and i will not be someone i am not!" If your so called friends want to chance getting a disease, or getting someone pregnant or if they are girls, getting pregnant, then thats their loss. I got pregant on birth control. I have 4 kids. Birth control is not as effective as you want to believe. You can get herpes by kissing. Does that sound so appealing? Because you don't see sores on someone doesn't mean that they don't carry it.

Be real! It is a desicion that holds to many consequenses. Do make it at 16. You have your whole life ahead of you! Don't play russian rulette with it. In other words, don't gamble with your future!!!! Be a leader. Followers become the butt of everbodies jokes!!

Answer 7

I think you should wait. Having sex is a big responsibility and you should not do it unless you are ready to take on all these responsibilities. There is the possibility that you might get an STD or get the girl pregnant. I think you can still have fun without having sex. I applaud you for waiting

Answer 8

If your not sure then don't do it, some day you'll want to do it an you will be completely sure you want to. so wait a little till the day comes. Don't let the horny feeling shut down your brain, think about consequences before anything. Good luck, I hope you make the right decision. Go by what you feel is right!

Answer 9

Let me give you a harsh reality check.

If you brag to people on the internet that (as you put it) "girls are trying to get on over you" then chances are that thats only happening to you in your head.

First, look at the pro's and cons.

Pros.........5 seconds of pleasure.

Con's........risk of having a kid at 16, the girl telling everyone that you suck, feeling rejected after she tells you that wasn't very good.

Trust me, having a kid that early on is bad. no 16 year old can take care of a child money wise. I got my (now) wife pregnant at 17. It wasn't easy. I was working nights and going to school during the day. Until recently we were living pay check to pay check. Trust me. its not worth the risk

Answer 10

Let's see, do you have a fulltime job with medical benefits that pays over 40k a year? Because if you don't then I dont think you need to have sex---after all, that's what it's gonna take to support the baby and the baby's momma.
If you have to ask US, then perhaps you just should say NO for a while, a lonnnnnng while....