for the ladies...?

Question

why is it so hard 2 find a man who's special who isn't all about sex or looks? it seems like every time i turn around some man is wanting sex. i want someone who can challenge me mentally as well as sexually

Answer 1

good luck finding him, but there are guys out there that are worth the time of day, there just few and very far between!

Answer 2

Men think differently about sex than women. For them, it's mostly physical. For us, it's mostly emotional. Men can see something and be instantly turned on, while women usually have to get warmed up. The way you dress, act, and your posture may be calling to the wrong men. In my own experiences, I have learned that just holding your head up high and looking like you have a good amount of self confidence will weed out the guys looking for sex only because they think a women with a lot of confidence is way out of their league and they will "usually" leave you alone cause they don't want to play hard to get. The other major factor is the way you dress. The more skin you show, the more tempting you are and if you show too much, they will think you are easy, even if you aren't.

Answer 3

R U looking in the right places?
Trust me the man U're looking 4 U won't find in a Pub, Club Or Bar.
Try the Library 4 an educated man, 1 who may use his Brain more than his Tool!
Or even Evening classes, pick the right course & meet an intelligent man.

Answer 4

a question.......how do get challenged sexually? curious.

i agree though, about finding a man. with today's society, its so much more acceptable to just have affairs. but their are lots of people who are wanting more then that. just finding someone who you feel that connection with, even harder it seems. i found someone i am interested in at a prayer gathering. i won't go into what kind of gathering, although not bible or church. but in that kind of circle may be a place you to consider if you believe in god. or you could join some sort of singles club or something. some of my coworkers are going to a gathering that was set up at a singles web service. they both have gone on a few dates from this site. so seems pretty popular. anyways, good luck

Answer 5

Where are you meeting these men?Bars?It might be that its just the kind of men you are attracted to and you need to broaden your horizons a bit.Go to a coffee house,sports event,book stores,anything that interests you and gives you a chance to meet new people get a feel for em.Everyone wants sex at 2 am in the bar.Try doing sonething else on the weekends!

Answer 6

i know the feeling!! Go to college and get into the classes for the smart. I would suggest philosophy, and psycology. You'll find samrt guys in there.


Isn't it funny that you have too look real hard to find a man that is not shallow?? Join a book club, see if you can find a decent guy in there?

Answer 7

Just wait be patient the right man will come along that will be everything that you ever wanted in a man I know I found mine when I was 18 so like I said just be patient Mr. right will come along but until then you'll have many Mr. right nows...lol.

Answer 8

Well every guy wants to have sex and it's almost impossible to find a guy who won't ask you for it.Be patient and wait for the right man.Are you looking in the right places?Try to go out somewhere.

Answer 9

The reason we were put on earth was to have sex and bring forth children. Its like when guys are born, a chip is planted in their head saying "Have sex, Have sex!" Thats why sex is constantly on their mind.

Answer 10

Because for woman who is looking for a good man there is 10 woman just trying to @#$^!

Answer 11

You won't believe this but here goes.

Use a local dating service but do not put in a photo or a discription of yourself.

Tell them you are intelligent and looking for same.

And also, "I have a great personality."

You will find the guys that are your type...