I like this guy a lot and he had a party. He invited few friends. My other friend had a party too. It was exactly the same one as my crushes party. I was in a great dillemma because my friends party is just under my apartment and my crushes party is like very faw away. I decided not to come to both parties so it will be even. But then my crush didn't talk to me ever since that day. He ignored me and never did called me or emailed me. I got really upset when I heard that no one came to his party. Not even one person. Even his best friend didnt came because he went scuba diving somwhere. Now I felt really hurt and tried to talk to him but he wont listen to me or anything at all. What should I do?
2006-07-05 02:23:08 · 8 answers · asked by Hana-chan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe no one came to his party cause it was a party for 2 you and him
tell him your sorry and ask him if he would like to go out on a date with you and since you hurt him you pay for dinner
2006-07-05 02:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should have gone to your crush's party and on the way home stop at your friend's who lives below you. Tsk... too late now. I bet he feels that the people he invited don't care (the diver is probably excused because dive trips take a bit of planning ahead and he probably knew about it ahead of time).
To be honest, I'd be pissed and hurt too if I were in his shoes.
I'm afraid there's nothing you can do but wait until he's over it. Some people believe in giving others a second chance, some do not. Depends on what kind of a person he is. He may come around eventually but if he does, it'll take a while. Give him a little time and then invite him for coffee to talk and see what you can do to fix the damage.
2006-07-05 09:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your coin has two sides, head and tail. If you pick head, to go to the party and are with him alone at the party, you might lost your virginity unexpectedly. If you pick tail, not go to the party, your virginity is still with you, but you lost him. As a matter of fact, it was your fate and destiny to pick tail. Let him go or look for another crush.
2006-07-05 09:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by devid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right your apology and your thoughts about this happening in am email and sent it to him. He wil have to read whether he likes it or not -even just from curiosity- and then he'll know what really happened!... It's the only way..
Or, right him a letter...
Or talk to one of his friends...
2006-07-05 09:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by smaragda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain what happened and offer a date somewhere. Would be much better alone any way. You cant be responsible for the others not turning up,
2006-07-05 09:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would email him. That way you can say everything you want to say and he is guarenteed to at least hear you out. But if he wants to be immature and ignore you, let him. You can't force him to talk to you. Move on...there are plenty of boys out there for you to date. I say date as many as possible...have fun while your young...but do it smart. Good luck!
2006-07-05 09:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Modern_Monroe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him y u did it........U didnt mean to hurt him after all ! Maybe he'll understand. And there is one more thing to notice..He's ur crush rite ??? Whn u didnt go for his party, he felt angry or maybe upset.....Maybe this means he likes you !!!!!
2006-07-05 09:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ cute_n_lovely♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should try to talk to him. and try to tell him u didn't go to the other one andtry to make him happy by inviteing him over or something
2006-07-05 09:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by takayama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋