We broke up recently when he began to act "weird" and to be honest i had had it. Then I found out he was talking to another woman on the phone for what he says were innocent phone calls, at 1, 2 and 3 in the morning. Of course this made me angry and being a woman made me feel like I wanted him back, but i know I don't. So I asked him if he was seeing her and he denied it but I didn't care at that point because we were broken up. Then there is this wedding in a month that i asked if he wanted to go to with me to and he said yes. I figured we could hang out and not have any hard feelings towards eachother and get to say good bye. To be honest I was going to break up with him anyway so it's not like i want to be with him. So should I see him or not??
2006-07-05 02:11:19 · 6 answers · asked by superwoman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u think u can actually see him and not re-kindle any old feelings and not end up having sex with him, go ahead. but im pretty sure it wont be that cut and dry. im going thru the same thing...wondering if i can be friends with my ex...and i dont think i can handle it. and if u do end up having sex or re-kindling the flame...ur just going to end up causing urself unnecessary heartache.
2006-07-05 02:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by MsNic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up to you. You contradict yourself re wanting to be with him or not. sort out your true feelings for him. Perhaps this get together will be an opportunity to make that decision but dont get caught up with the emotion of a wedding. There is still unfinished business between you both as often there is when there is a fight before a break up. You have recognised that you need closure so quickly get it over with if that is what you want and move on. Remember the behaviour that drove you apart I doubt if it has been rectified over a short period of time. He has the right to friends male and female but he has not quite been honest re his relationship with this woman on the phone.I say trust your sixth sense and face the fact that he was at least cheating on you at an emotional level. Go alone to the wedding , who knows you might even meet someone there
2006-07-05 02:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. If u let him visit and still have feelings u will never be able to move on. As hard as it must be its for the best.
My ex came into town recently and I told him I could careless if I saw him. Which honestly I did but, I didn't want to. I know he could careless and I know what he wanted. So I told him no thanks I will pass. I feel better about it.
2006-07-05 02:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by ♫♪♥mï®♥♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do yourself or him no favours by doings this. Hanging out with Ex's is like communism: good in theory but **** in practice.
2006-07-05 02:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no. he just wants something and then he gonna tell you everything you want to hear. then your gonna take him back and you will be miserable again.
tell him to go get a life and leave you alone cause hes no longer a part of your life.
2006-07-05 02:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on....don't torture yourself....obviously he's not at home wasting braincells on thinking about you
2006-07-05 02:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by j m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋