2006-07-05 02:10:49 · 21 answers · asked by flyfun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are either not interested in the guy or you have no need for a sex drive. There is nothing wrong with not having that drive. I am sure you still enjoy sex but its probably not as great as just feeling emotionally close to someone. And if you aren't into being physically or emotionally close with someone then that's okay too. Who really needs sex to be happy?
Contributing factors to loss of a sex drive:
Stress
Diet
Lack of exercise
Too much routine
Smoking
Not an exciting partner
If the issue is possibly that your partner is not exciting then try discussing it with him and maybe start experimenting. Find something you want to try or you know you enjoy. Find a fantasy and fullfill it.
2006-07-05 02:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be multiple problems at that young of age I would guess it to be more mental then physical. You may be experiencing depression or anxiety in life. I'm not exactly sure I would need more information from you. I would talk to your doctor about it, maybe it can be a problem between you and your current partner. More information on whats going on in your life right now will get better answers I'm sure.
2006-07-05 02:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by newburg_2_fine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When this happens to my wife of 42 years it ususally has to do with me being a total ******. The best way to turn on a female is to care, express love, and devote full attention to them. Guys are totally different. So maybe the problem isn't with you, but your partner. Of course, this is just a guess at the solution to what may be a complex problem.
2006-07-05 02:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by old guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMON
Depression
Relationship problem
Perimenopause
Excess alcohol intake (and cirrhosis in men)
Hypothyroidism
OCCASIONAL
Ageing
Antihypertensive
treatment in men
Hyperprolactinaemic
drugs in men (such as phenothiazines haloperidol)
Anti-androgenic drugs
in men (such as cimetidine finasteride)
Anti-androgenic drugs
in women (cyproterone)
RARE
Hypothalamic/pituitary
disease
Renal failure
Primary testicular disease or damage
Adrenal disease (Cushing's and Addison's diseases)
Feminising tumours in men:
testis or adrenal gland
FBC: may show evidence of general disease. MCV raised with significant excess alcohol
U&E: check for renal failure. Na and K deranged in adrenal disease
LFT and GGT: should reveal evidence of excess alcohol
TFT: will demonstrate hypothyroidism
Hormone profile: FSH/LH prolactin oestradiol and testosterone useful in men and women. Altered by primary endocrine disease drugs and alcohol
Depression and relationship difficulties can induce each other and often co-exist. A careful history will reveal whether antidepressants and/or psychosexual counselling is appropriate
Early hypothyroidism closely mimics depressive illness. Do not leave out simple initial investigation
General examination is important to detect rare causes. It also shows the problem is taken seriously
Androgen patches are fashionable but have risks: leave diagnosis of testicular failure to a specialist
2006-07-05 02:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by Bolan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoe take it easy Bolan she has lost her sex drive, not gone into massive deppression. Dont worry too much about it honey it will come back at some time. Take a look at your relationship with your man. Look for something to spice it up a bit perhaps. Good luck. Talk to him about it, look at things together.
2006-07-05 03:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hormones!!
there are some super herbalists out there who can fix u right up
there is a saliva hormone test that tells much more than blood can and you should take one, the herbalist will agree
i say herbalist because they do "compounding" , they mix them in a cream you apply and it works great
i have not lost my sex drive, but have other issues and my doctor sent me to one, i put the cream on my arm or leg and rub it in...i have to say i am feeling much better in a couple of areas!!
2006-07-05 02:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not at your sexual peak yet. women don't get there until they are about 30 years old. believe me i know how you feel i am only 27 and i get the same way. women usually go through phases of wanting it and not. so just hang in there and you will get over this little slump.
2006-07-05 02:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by Monica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way honey this might be good. I don't know how many times my 'package' has gotten me into trouble!
Well the problem is most likely that you don't masturbate and fantasize enough. Try that okay?
2006-07-05 02:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Fun and Games 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in a relationship than you have an intimacy problem. If you are single then you need to find someone you can feel intimate with.
2006-07-05 02:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of asking quiries here consult a proffessional gynacologist or psycologist if u r serious abou ur life.
2006-07-05 02:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Saji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋