both of my sisters r getting married a week after each outher so the 1 that booked it first went mad and said ur stealing my liam light because hers is a week be4, They have had a massive row over it and havent been talking for over 8 m how can i get them to talk again help!!!!!!!!
2006-07-05 02:02:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Why don't they have a double wedding? That way they could both have the lime light together.
2006-07-05 02:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is tough to share your wedding like that. They may not make up until afterwards. They are too stressed right now. Most of the stuff that seems important now will fade a few months after the weddings. If they love each other (I am sure they do, or they wouldn't be so upset) they will make up someday. Just try to stay neutral or they won't be speaking to you either.
2006-07-05 04:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne- LEAVES Military Ministry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one that went mad isn't mature enough to get married. She'll be divorced within two years. You can't help them. My sister and I got married a month apart. Mine scheduled before hers even though her date was already set. I was in her wedding and she was in mine and we speak everyday. It worked because we had different sets of friends and no liam light was stolen. Your sister's will regret their behavior later. As for you...just be there for both and the storm will blow over.
2006-07-05 03:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by murph_ltt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i wish i was you, I lost my sister at a young age. What i recommend is sit down with them but separately and explain to them that you love them both and how much it hurts you to see the them going on for themselves. Also let them know that family is everything and instead of fighting they should rejoice and be happy for each other because time like these should be treasured together.
Good Luck i hope things work out!!!
2006-07-05 02:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your wisest course is to be Switzerland here and refuse to be involved in the conflict. Of course, having a war in the family will make your life difficult, but I don't think you will able to successfully broker a lasting peace until well after both weddings are over.
2006-07-05 02:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both need to just get over it! I mean, the weddings have been planned and everything. Sounds like a lot of immaturity going on - how sad.
2006-07-05 02:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your sister think it was a GOOD idea to plan her wedding for the week after your other sister?? Sounds pretty immature to me. Do yourself a favor and stay out of it....otherwise one will think you're taking the other's side, which will just cause more problems........
2006-07-05 05:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not suggest that they have a joint Double Wedding.
All the relatives will be relieved also because it means only one journey to a wedding instead of two.
2006-07-05 12:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both need a good slap round the face and told to get on with it. At this stage they're both gonna happen and family is too important to throw away
2006-07-05 07:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by emily_jane2379 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god 2 weddings in one week!!!!
your sister that booked it after your other sister was probaly just jealous and wants the attention the your other sister is getting... can she not wait even a couple of months after???????
try talk one of your sisters to hold off on one of the weddings or have a double wedding????
2006-07-05 02:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by IrishLassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋