A young girl was sexually abused when she was younger by her half brother until recently she found out her other 3 older sisters were too. The mum or dad doesnt know about it. She wants them to know but the other girls tell her to move on with her life. The brother has just recently moved back home making her life miserable. What could you do to help this girl?
2006-07-05 01:39:33 · 10 answers · asked by butterfly_angelmarie321 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The young girl has to do what is best for her, not what is best for her sisters. It's possible the sisters will deny that they were abused too, leaving the young girl to stand alone. But with you by her side, she will be able to do it. You must help her to tell her parents and if that doesn't work, then you must tell the authorities. What her half brother is doing (did) is wrong. It's possible the parents know, or at least suspect, that something was going on. But since you know, it is your responsibility to act until the young girl is protected. It's wondeful that she has you in her life.
2006-07-05 01:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by vbrink 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not be misled: God is not one to be mocked. For whatever a man is sowing, this he will also reap Galatians 6:7
Is the sinner so wicked that Jehovah will never forgive him? Not necessarily so. Jesus said that 'blasphemy against the holy spirit' was unforgivable. And Paul said that there is no sacrifice for sins left for one who practices sin willfully despite knowing the truth. (Luke 12:10; Hebrews 10:26, 27) But nowhere does the Bible say that an adult Christian who sexually abuses a child—whether incestuously or otherwise—cannot be forgiven. Indeed, his sins can be washed clean if he repents sincerely from the heart and turns his conduct around. However, he may still have to struggle with the wrong fleshly impulses he cultivated. (Ephesians 1:7) And there may be consequences that he cannot avoid.
Let Us ABHOR What Is Wicked
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/1997/1/1/article_01.htm
2006-07-05 08:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by studzywudzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the brother is in the home with the girl she MUST tell the partents! Her sisters are going to have to suck it up and back her up. If the girl is not living in the home with the brother she should still do what is right for her but she can have time to think about it and talk some more with her sisters or a professional.
Please help (or get help for yourself) IMMEADITELY if this man is in the home with the girl!
Email if there is anything i can do to help
2006-07-05 20:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by beth l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be reported. I don't know if telling the mom and dad would help. He will probably lie about it anyway. If he is bothering you now go to your parents and let them know, let him know right off that you do not approve of this way of life he has chosen. Abuse is never OK. Try telling your mom first, it will be hard for them to believe if he is good around them. But it will be better out in the open, because they will be watching him. My sister and I had a uncle who abused us and we told his sister. She accused us of lying, so don't be surprised if they don't believe you. It is hard to comprehend that your own family would do something like that to you.
2006-07-05 08:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by laurelbush28762 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual abusers never seem to overcome their illness. They are sick people and need
treatment. Report him and try to persuade the sisters to do the same. Never trust these people again. In my opinion when someone is definitely known to be a sexual abuser and/or rapist it should be mandatory for him to be castrated, and if this practice is continued especially with children he should receive a frontal lobotomy and confined for the rest of his life.
2006-07-05 09:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by fancydancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her she should get all of her sisters and her parents together and tell the parents what happened. she probably cant and wont move on until this chapter of her life has a "closure". If her sisters dont want to do this then tell her she could still admit it to her parents on her behalf. if she is to afraid to do this alone maybe a good friend could be there with her...
2006-07-05 08:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i will tell her to leave that sick enviroment. Find a place far from her brother. Second tell her to go to psyihologist. I think their sisters are wrong , not telling the parents. If she is to little to leave and still depends of her parents i will tell her to tell them what her brother did to her inspite of what her sisters told her. If their parents wouldn t beleive or understand i will help her find a place far from this family.
2006-07-05 08:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by sad girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell. Tell. Tell! This girl's life is at stake! Call the police or CPS. This will continue if someone doesn't do something.
2006-07-05 09:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell the parents and kick the bastard out!!
He will be back to his old tricks if you don't.
Don't think, just act!
2006-07-05 08:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Howzaat! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone, don't let history repeat itselt. Prevent other girls from feeling what are feeling & have felt. Tell your parents please I beg of you, he thinks he can get away with & he'll keep on continuing. Please stand up for yourself, may God be with her.
2006-07-05 09:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋