get the love of my life back- we was together 3 years, weve now been apart a year. I love him and i miss him i dont want to be with anyone else. please dont tell me ill get over him in time i know that one thanx but i dont want to get over him i want him back in my life. we dont live near each other like we used to but i know if he was to see me hed still feel the same. what do i do????????? i cant go on without him. serious answers please dont waste my time
2006-07-05 01:36:53 · 9 answers · asked by browneyes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No i wont tell you to get on with your life without him. I have waited 8years for a guy i love, he was in a totally different continent, and we met only a few times briefly.....well im marrying him in december....
hang in there...if your love is strong it will happen.
2006-07-05 01:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
Well, the main problem that I see here is that you don't mention why you broke up, or if he is involved with anyone now.
My advice would be for you to call him and chat. Just start a friendship back up with him, and then you can see where he is in his life. Since you broke up, there was a reason for that, and you need to be sure that reason is gone so you don't just break up again.
Start off being friends, and build a solid foundation. Since you don't live near eachother, talking would be a great first step, and then a visit after a while once you are comfortable in your friendship again.
Good luck!!
2006-07-05 08:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by ItsJustMe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried calling him? emailing him? sending him a card letting him know you still think about him? are you sure he feels the same way about you?
there is only one way to know for sure. try contacting him some way. let him know that you still think about him and miss him. don't go too far, but just let him know that you still care about him, think about him often and miss him. if you don't live THAT far away you could see each other on weekends. if you're far enough away that you need to take a plane that could be a lot more difficult but not impossible.
i know you don't want to hear this but you CAN go on without him. there are lots of guys out there that can make you happy but that doesn't mean that things can't work out with your ex. It all starts with communication...give him a call.
2006-07-05 08:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by murfeezlaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur in contact wid him, talk 2 him.. u cant force him but atleast make him realise ur luv n shower ur love n dont expect anythg in return if u really love him... if he's ur destiny ,,he will get back 2 u n above all, believe in god n urself... everythg is possible if u dont lose hope n crib things.. all the best n as u said if he was here he wld feel the same.. so go n just talk 2him... may b he also feels the same...
2006-07-05 08:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Shivani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y did you split first. 2 look in your heart, will it really go back to the way it was,and will you still be happy if things are not the same. you ahould look to the future, and see if that is a chance you want to take
2006-07-05 08:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by TO FAST TO FURIOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say why you broke up. Call him up and find out if he would be interested in resuming your relationship. If so, go for it, you will know how.
If not, you will have to give it up and move on even if you do not want to. We all have to do things in life that are difficult and that we do not want to do.
2006-07-05 08:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say how to get him back since you didn't say what broke you two up in the first place.
2006-07-05 08:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by rosey224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you MUST move on with your life -- not for his peace-of-mind, but for YOUR OWN>
EX-ES ARE EX-ES FOR A REASON!!!!
It did not work out.
good luck
2006-07-05 08:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk it out
2006-07-05 08:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋