There is this guy I cannot forget about. It starts like this: I caught my ex cheating on me(in the bed we shared)we were together for a few years, we are now apart. I ran into this guy I know through my ex(they are kinda friends, but not too close)we ended up talking for a few hours one night and slept in the same bed(he cuddled with me-thats it)He was a complete gentlemen(playing with my hair, warming my feet with his etc..)very sweet. We really seemed to hit it off that night, but the next morning things were awkward. He asked me to go to breakfast but I declined in a nice way. I saw him a couple months after and he came to me and said "your kiling me", I heard through a friend of his he likes me but is freaked about knowing my ex, and my ex is pissed about that night, even though it should not matter. Now I cant stop thinking about this guy. Its been a few months since, and I dont know why I still think of him. Besides calling him, what should I do?
2006-07-05 01:35:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why did you blow him off. He sounds great. He could have easily taken advantage of your vulnerability and did not.
Normally I don't think it is good to date the friend of an ex. But your ex is a lying, cheating dog who likes breaking rules and hearts.
Call this guy up and start seeing him. Who knows where it might lead. It sounds like he will be the perfect cure for a broken heart.
2006-07-05 01:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on seems like drama and it seems like you and your ex have some issues that aren't worked out, Maybe you still have feelings for your ex and thats why you arent able to move on, And as far as the other guy be honest and stop avoiding him he needs to know how you really feel, don't string him along.
2006-07-05 08:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new guy. That guy has ties to your ex, you more than likely still have some feelings for your ex and this just sounds like a calamity waiting to happen.
2006-07-05 08:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Youcantbeserious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not call him? You liked him, he likes you... what is the problem? Are you still hung up on your ex? You don't want him, he cheated on you. This guy sounds like a good thing. I'd call him and set something up. What are you waiting for? I dial the damn phone for you. CALL HIM!!!!
2006-07-05 08:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur not with ur ex anymore so its none of his business and if they were close mates i could understand the awkwardness but as they arent close it shouldnt be a problem. lifes too short to regret not doing things. follow your heart and be happy. do whats right for you.
2006-07-05 08:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going out with the guy, it wont be the end of the world if u dont or if it dosent work out, nd who cares about what your ex thinks remember he cheated on you
2006-07-05 08:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by armorefelix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get together the both of you have to ready to deal with mutual friends of your ex knowing everything.
2006-07-05 08:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not going to pursue the relationship you really need to stop thinking about it and move on, although it sounds like you really like him and should just call him already!!
2006-07-05 08:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is normal i think you fall in love with the new guy,follow your heart and forget about the unfaithful boyfriend!Go on with the boy that you are comportable with and be happy!
2006-07-05 08:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey everyone has a past. its up to us to figure whats more important,a great relationship or a dodgy past that will never be back.
2006-07-05 08:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋