2006-07-05 01:02:47 · 22 answers · asked by SLIMM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably because too many people jump in too fast into relationships. People move in together after a couple of months these days without really knowing each other. I think if relationships were a lot slower like they were back in the 60's and 70's then maybe so many wouldn't break down so soon.
2006-07-05 02:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by theallknowingscouser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is all about problems because it is the attempt to meld together two universes into one and these two worlds are written in a different code and speak a different language so there are loads of communication problems. People either don't understand or don't want to and they are too preoccupied with how they feel in the situation. When each sides focus is on the other there is more likelihood of success as there is a balance of sacrifice and a foundation of selfless love. Each person then feels their needs are met and they feel secure that the other person is listening.
2006-07-05 01:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by sereneicequeen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c alot of people dont and want work on there relationship. People just dont care any more. They get into a fight and think if this dont work there is always someone else. So they dont work on what they have. Then later in life they found out that screwed up the best thing that they had and then it is to late.
2006-07-05 01:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a bit of a generalisation :-)
I don't think everyone is having relationship problems. There might be a few who post questions on here (and other places), but sometimes asking questions/for advice can be a positive thing
2006-07-05 01:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is but relationships take work and no relationship is going to be easy its a challenge it takes trust, and communication and a open mind as well.
2006-07-05 01:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because life is full of relationships.
Family relationships
Work relationships
Love relationships
Friendships...
As humans, we are social beings and therefore we will always find problems in one or more areas of our relationships. As we are all different, we find friction, tension and thats what causes problems.
2006-07-05 01:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess people are not perfect (that's make what we are and not gods). Living by yourself have enough problems already and when these two imperfect people lives together, it stares up more. I once ask my dad why he and mum fight all the time over well basically everything. He reply me saying, son if ur mum and I don't fight, we've got divorce long time ago. Fighting keeps us closer.
2006-07-05 01:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by Cool Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship has some kind of issues or problems and the people who say they don't are in denial.
2006-07-05 01:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not.I think it is lack of communication.In life we must always be a good listener,keep eye contact and sort our problems out as adults.I dont argue with my partner.If something is bothering one of us,we will sit and have a good natter and resolve it.we frequently have debates too.My advice is never go to sleep on an arguement.
2006-07-05 01:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they dont communicate,
they need to express their feelings and expectations of the relationship when first having a relationship
they dont communicate
there is no talking between the couple.
2006-07-05 01:06:14 · answer #10 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋