2006-07-05 00:46:22 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sex should be enjoyable, intimate, and fun! Are you angry with each other when you are not having sex? Or just when doing it?
I would recommend marriage counseling, if you both will agree to it, but first, can you both talk to each other about your feelings and why you feel angry? Hope that helps.
2006-07-05 00:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by blondjason1221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering the other questions you have asked I am wondering if this anger is about wanting or not wanting a child.
Of course you do not want to divorce or seperate. There can be answers to your problems but you both need to talk to one another about the problems openly and honestly.
If having sex makes you both angry with one another try not having sex for a while. If you both agree to abstain from sex for a set period of time, say one month of no sex and then instead you can allow yourselves to kiss, hug, and just be together but not have the stress of sex in your relationship the two of you should be able to see inside yourselves and notice the responses you have and the feelings you experience when you think about sex.
Explore how each of you is feeling. Accept that sex is allowed for people who have married each other and just relax. You do not have to be a baby making machine to be valued as a person.
Ask each other questions about what sex means to you. Ask about how sex feels for you. Ask about how the closeness makes you feel.
Really listen to one another.
2006-07-19 03:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you both have to come to an agreement to drop everything else going on
in your life when you want to have sex and
think about pleasure for each other. You should also do more forplay like message each other
with oils or cream and light candles take a shower together anything to get your mind off other things.I will say that I had stopped giving it up till my husband would stop doing stupid things and when he asked me why I do not want sex with him I would tell him because he needed to grow up and take care of the other issues first or I would not feel lik having sex.
2006-07-19 05:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 22:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "After the Affair" by Janis Abrams Spring. THERE NEEDN'T BE AN AFFAIR FOR IT TO BE HELPFUL. The book is for married and unmarried couples. There are helpful chapters and activities on how to communicate wants and needs to your partner be it sexually or emotionally. Look at the table of contents and sample excerpts from Amazon.com. If you register with the website, they will allow you to see many more excerpts from the book.
Good Luck.
2006-07-17 12:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by 2live 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be bcoz you feel ashamed to be nude in front of each other or maybe you have little knowledge of sex and its ways. it may also be that you feel that its not the right time. or maybe the whole days teension. the only soln that i get is that you get under a bed sheet smooch and make simple love until even one of you feels that the feeling for sex is irresitible. then go for passionnate sex. keep that smooch on , let your bodies be in touch throughout and throw away the clothes and than there you go.
please dont report abuse bcoz i am only helping.
2006-07-05 00:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by loveme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sex is making you feel anger, there is a reason. Are you attracted to eachother? Do you both like the same things? Is it consensual sex?
2006-07-17 03:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your anger can have several reasons; for you to come to the actual reason, you will have to restrain from sex for a couple of days, that will make you more observant of the phenomenon which otherwise goes off unnoticed, thus affecting both of you with anger. i am not answering your question straight off as only answer will not help you, perhaps a right way of having sex will be a more appreciated solution.
2006-07-05 00:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe this is Gothic.
anger with each othe when u do sex is one of the technically and tactically.
anger sex is an antique.
my recommendation is you go for anger sex twoice a week if you disperate but not every time.. other wise,, you , him or both of you gana go down..
have a hunger sex for a change.. ..
2006-07-19 07:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get d oassion 2 hav sex in anger
2006-07-19 02:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋