plz help me... i lied to my dad that i am going out with friends but went out to meet my boy friend.... and he found out.... help!!!
2006-07-05 00:40:19 · 13 answers · asked by uttara_sriram 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why did u lie to him?
2006-07-05 00:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by young guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, it's time to fess-up, make amends and set things right as best you can, and this is life, there are some mistakes you'll make that are so bad that you can't go back and fix them, your Dad is probably dissappointed and hurt because the trust he had in you has been misplaced, and will take quite some time to get it back, Granted, parents can sometimes be strict, but remember that they have your well-being in mind, bottom line, he's trying to protect the daughter he loves so very much,this is called" tough love", I would use this incident as a chance to develope a relationship with your Dad that when you need to talk about anything that you can go to him, and as a parent he would need to listen instead of judge, a relationship like that is priceless in a teens life! GOOD LUCK!!
2006-07-05 01:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by trekkie1972566 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very disappointed in you, he trusted you, and not only did you lie about where you were, but who you were with.If you want to have his trust, you must make amends, be ready to ahve to prove you are trustworthy numerous times before yu have the trust you had....I am a father, I know how he feels
2006-07-05 00:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be frank to your parents. Apologize and behave. Your parents merely worry about you. What if you got raped by your boy-friend?
2006-07-05 00:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by changmw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is being with your boyfriend worth more than your dad's trust...Boyfriends will come and go, but your father will always be your father...
2006-07-05 00:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by tina_dopey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to him, including the reason you felt you had to lie to him, and then ask him to put himself in your shoes.
It worked well with my mom when I was younger.
Good luck!
2006-07-05 00:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by lovethebeanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke your father's trust. Apologize to him. He may not trust you for awhile and you deserve it.
2006-07-05 00:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by older woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, tell him why you lied and apologise.
And mean it
2006-07-05 00:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologise, and don't lie again.
2006-07-05 00:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize, tell him you love him.
2006-07-05 01:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will pass, don't worry, by time
2006-07-05 00:43:46 · answer #11 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋