Help with this 1 guys, I found the 1 & he feels the same way. But his baby mama is tripping?

Question

I really don't want to lose him but she's threating with the child. I would do anything for him but I don't want him 2 lose his child cause I'm not ready to be a mother right now. HELP & BE HONEST!

Answer 1

Wow This Sounds Crazy sorry to hear that.............So anyway what u should just do is wait to see what happens give it some space cause like i read in an eariler answer u got, unresolved issues, (good one by the way) But u most likely dont want to get in it esp since u said that u dont want him to loose his child, If it is meant to be and he truely loves u it will happen in its own time...... and the mother part dont do it until ur ready, cause being a mom at 16 is hard, i dont know how old u are but i had a hard time and still am


good luck

MJ

Answer 2

Ask him if he's happier with you or her. If he says her then you dont need him anyway. If he says you then bam you got him. My best tip is if 2 ladies in my life - one being my baby's momma, and the other being my current boo - I'd go with the one that gives better sex. Its a very raw and skanky approach, but thats how we think. We have two brains, and one of them thinks harder (or maybe b/c I'm 23, lol). Anyway I probably would stay with the current boo, b/c most likely theres a reason I seperated from the baby's momma.

Answer 3

His child's mother obviously has unresolved issues with him. Unless you want to spend your time with a guy who's baby's mother will make your life a living hell, I suggest being done with him until he can sort out things.

Answer 4

Old story. The " babys mama" is always a nightmare. It all depends on how HE handles it. She can not keep his child from him. It's the law. If he doesn't stand up to her,, RUN!!! Nothing but aggravation.