my love life stated on a good note with a gal whom i trusted dearly and she is beautiful,we used to hung around together two months ago but the story is something else this time.She now says want we had in the past is not their now coz she didn't know wat she was doing, i try to tell her how much are love her but only tells me its just a song coming from my mouth,she says she dosen't believe want i say coz a lot of guys say the same love words.she know longer visits me but only visits her male friends who she hides their names,i really love this gal and i dot want to change at this moment but the way things are going it looks like it is the end of the road,help me solve my love life
2006-07-05 00:00:27 · 11 answers · asked by ajay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shes cheating on you, you're worth more then that. Take my advise, leave her, and find someone better then her. Im serious!
2006-07-05 00:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she also has allot of insecurities when in a relationship, so rather choose to be with male friends. The point is she doesn't feel the same, she probally got out a bad relationship and sprang into another. you sound like a nice guy and I'm sure there is someone Else, get over her and fast otherwise love is gonna hurt you big time.Try and hook up with a few girl pals!As they always say theres plenty of fish in the sea!
2006-07-05 07:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jacque 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably cheating. Been there, done that. Good thing one of my webdate friends saw him in a steak house in town, with a blonde hoar. She called me and I caught them red-handed. Hah!! I could not stand a cheater! Good thing my webdate friend saw her and told it to me!
Don't be afraid to end a relationship. Remember, its always a lesson learned after all that. Confront her or plan out to get her red-handed. After, move on and expand your horizon. You can try webdate if you want to! Iam sure you'd meet many friends there.
2006-07-05 07:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by michelle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately what you do is not always understood the way you intend for it to be... and sadly true.. people's feelings do change sometimes and we can not control it.. i suggest you think about it.. i'm sure that you want to see her happy because you love her.. i just ended a 5 year relationship because i realized something major was missing.. and he's still my friend.. so yea think about it.. see what it is she really wants.. and though it hurts.. if it's not you .. then try to be happy for her if you don't want to lose her friendship
2006-07-05 07:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want you anymore! Face it and move on. You are making it worse by "clinging". Everyone gets their heart broken.. It hurts for awhile, Then it goes away. Start looking for someone else!
2006-07-05 07:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is bored with you.... try being spontaneous at LEAST once a month... do something completly out of the ordinary... like take her to disneyland, or to a ballet, or a concert.. something corny you might not necessarily enjoy, but you know she will... might help some
gl
2006-07-05 07:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by jim20032003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like she's using that as an excuse to end the relationship......maybe she's found someone else..... anyways ask her out straight what is happening if she dodges the question then forget her and get on with your life..
2006-07-05 07:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants out of the relationship. You can't save it by yourself. Find someone who'll appreciate you. Don't waste another moment on her.
2006-07-05 07:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her. she is not the right one for you. maybe you may find another one. you just try to forget her as she is not interested in you.
2006-07-05 07:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat some sense into her.
2006-07-05 07:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋