He said i`m not caring but it is not true,i do care for him so much n willing to do anything for him.How can i contunie to live with him?
2006-07-04 23:23:17 · 11 answers · asked by sila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you cant trust him, then your relationship, sadly, is over. Theres no way you can live in peace if theres no trust. Take some time away from him, and do some serious thinking of what you want, then have a heart to heart, if its different things then part on good terms.
2006-07-04 23:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be so very hard to ever trust him completely again. In fact if you ever do regain trust you will still have that affair in the back of your mind.
Your looking at years to learn how to cope with it. The trust will never be the same.
Trust really should not be an issue for him. He should be more concerned with your feelings. He not only broke a trust bond but he humiliated you in a very painful way. Taking that precious faithfulness that holds a marriage together and throwing it down the drain for a night of cheap sex.
If you didn't care you would have divorced him. He ought to realize that and be very thankful!
2006-07-05 06:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by lovingfeathers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either through marriage couceling or personal counceling. I don't know that you will ever fully trust him now, but maybe since you have been together for several many years, I am sure your marriege is strong enough to fight against it. I think it would depend on how sincere he was about the situation and if you knew where he was most of the time, but that is a hard thing. Good Luck to you.
2006-07-05 06:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by nknicolek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..so you know in fact he is sleeping w/other women? If so, you have to leave because at some point, even though YOU have good intentions, you'll start to resent him..If he already has expressed some displeasure w/you I'd try to concentrate on that first..but if he is just your run of the mill pervert who can't be faithful, you gotta go..you'll be happier in the long run, even if you're single...That's what I did.
2006-07-05 06:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by THEGREATCOMMUNICATOR24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am sorry for you.. but you have to leave everything behind and give him a second chance.. try to forget cause men don't understand what's the meaning of love..
try to tease him try to make him feel jealous try to make him feel he's at the same situation as you and see what he''l do.
Good Luck
2006-07-05 06:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Some 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a long talk to see if your problems can be worked out. If he thinks that you are still uncaring he will cheat again. If you talk and are able to get to the real issues then it can work with some time.
2006-07-05 06:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Adalina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard way: Do the same thing with your husband friend.
Good way: As long he regretted and committed not doing that again, forgive him !!!
It's all yours.....depend on your love...
2006-07-05 07:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jakarta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately most men want to cheat and many do. He will have to earn your trust.
2006-07-05 06:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by Paige 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too bad for u...if u wanna live a terrible life n keep thinking tht what if ur hubby is cheating on u throughout ur life then continue this relation or else its end it......one time hurt is better than getting hurt throughtout ur life............
2006-07-05 06:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by y not? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he loves you and you love him and after 20yrs there should be no trust issue.hes with you and your with him .hes not leaving and your not leaving .and if he wants to stay make him watch you shag with another guy and then ya can call it even.sex is sex and love is love .
2006-07-05 06:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋