Ive met alot of lesbian femmes that will only date hot lesbian butches or lesbian femmes. This leads me to the impression that they're just about looks & are insecure about being seen in public with an ugly girlfriend. True/False? Your thoughts on this?
2006-07-04 23:12:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That’s like asking if all lesbians are mean, because all the ones you know are. There is no general rule about any group. The lesbians you know may be shallow, but to stereotype the rest as shallow isn’t fair. I’m sure they’re just as diverse as any other group is.
2006-07-11 17:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kohl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When we're younger we tend to be shallow like that....looks, what will people think about our 'date', etc.
When they grow up, they'll grow out of it.
I think just about anyone under the age of 20 would feel insecure about being in public with an ugly date!
2006-07-05 10:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you get rejected? Is that why you asked this question? Its good to try and date people who arn't 'SCENE' as they are less likely to have special rules about who is cool enough to date and are interested in personality, intelligence, social skills and life. Its ok to be into a type/look but not they miss out on alot by overlooking women that don't fit their special category. and yes they are probably extremely insecure.
2006-07-12 03:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by Rose Button 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont really agree, its the same as straight ppl i think, to a certain extent looks are important but if there is nopersonality then thats it. the only shallow ppl i think that resemble what ur talkin about is the basically straight women that get with a hot girl to impress the boyz
2006-07-05 06:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by playboy_bunny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
now wait a minute, aren't we all guilty of this? to look hot? and it's not only lesbians, straights also do this.
from where i come from, there is a saying "this couple really look good together" it doesn't necessarily mean looking good. i believe you exude beauty/being hot if you are in love.
2006-07-05 09:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by toohevi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing shallow about wanting to be physically attracted to a person that you will have an intimate relationship with. Now, if you won't even be FRIENDS with someone because you aren't attracted to them, that is shallow.
2006-07-05 07:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by belladona317 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋