I was tricked and let down by a best friend, even after i promised never to trust again.i was for sure that she would not of hurt me, but i was wrong.
2006-07-04 22:50:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It happens only to those who listen to their hearts & not to their minds.I know it as i have personally felt it.
2006-07-04 23:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by sunil_frn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Johnetta,
I wish there were a good answer to that, But there isn't. I can say that if you excersize your true qualities, then other's that youre more inclined to get along with better will definately be attracted to that.
From my experiences, I became a bit of a "loner" quite some time ago, after getting burned enough times between friends and girlfriends. I began to strictly focus on my work (which I love immensely), and doing hobbies that I took a serious interest in. What i've found now is that my friends are all people that iether have the same passions that I do, same interests, same career, etc. It has helped alot.
For what it's worth, Im sorry about whatever happened, and best of luck. Just dont give up hope.
2006-07-04 23:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by john 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you already given a friend your trust he or she must take care of it to have a strong friendship. But if she betrayed you for the first time and it hurt you, talk to her and tell her what you feel. After talking to her I'm sure that she'll say sorry and promise not to do that again, just give her 25% of your trust not 100% because she already let you down there's nothing wrong in giving second chances. But if being betrayed for the thrid time is not good... If I were in your place I'll still consider her as my friend not as a best friend that I can trust...
Yet again, trust should be earned not to be given away easily for you'll be the one to sacrifice the consequences... Try obeserving a person and study their views and their attitudes before giving them your trust... Because it can't be easily earned in one snap, there are alot of challenges and sacrifices to earn it.
Its hard to find a true friend these days... There's nothing wrong in meeting other people but know their backgrounds, what things you have in common and you both need to earn each others trust to have a strong friendship. Take Care!
2006-07-04 23:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Yen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Believe is a walk. I'd most effective have neighbors that are riskless, and are equipped to preserve their phrase. Watch the friends you decide on, and choose buddies who're honest. After awhile, when your acquaintances preserve their phrases adequate times, it's going to be less difficult to believe once more. Simply be careful, now not all people in this world is trustworthy, so individuals which might be in it for the long haul will have to boost your believe. Now not every person has your first-rate curiosity at heart.
2016-08-08 23:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by isai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a stroll. I could handiest have peers which might be safe, and are equipped to hold their phrase. Watch the peers you decide upon, and decide upon peers who're honest. After awhile, while your peers hold their phrases sufficient instances, it'll be less complicated to believe once more. Just be careful, now not all people on this international is safe, so individuals which might be in it for the lengthy haul will ought to increase your believe. Not all people has your high-quality curiosity at middle.
2016-08-20 10:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens.
Because u r too sweet 4 the world.
NOW move on
2006-07-04 22:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is because they like that person n just blindly trust them again n again.
2006-07-04 23:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by shriram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"..trust the people, but dont trust the devil inside.."
2006-07-06 07:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by idiotguidebook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a cruel world out there!!
2006-07-04 23:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Sid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a hottie
2006-07-05 01:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋