many of my relatives including my father are unhappy today because they made the wrong choices in their wives
i am 21 but fear i may end up in their fate. what can i do to find the real woman for me in the future?
2006-07-04 22:49:57 · 7 answers · asked by spider-man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the only way to find real love is not to look for it,it will come to you in the strangest way when you least expect it
2006-07-04 22:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women are too caught up in trying to impress a man that they tend to forget who they are which leads to conflict and disagreements.At 21 years of age you still have plenty of time to find "wife" material. Recruit your closest friends and family to help fish out the fakes from the real women. Have a gathering with your friends and the potential females friends, see how they and you act with and without friends around. Above all, keep in mind that mistakes are not embedded in DNA, a father's mistakes do not fall upon his son, use his mistakes to your advantage, learn from it. Good Luck.
2006-07-05 06:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time to get to know her.You still have your whole life to find her..there`s no rush.Make sure you LIKE her as well as love her..date often,but try different dates, IE,don`t ALWAYS go to the movies..go and do different things. That way, you can both see each other in different situations.Talk allot about likes and dislikes,about children and ways of discipline,allowances,television shows and movies..how many children do you want? All of these things will come into play at sometime in your married life..it would be nice to get an idea of what`s most important and if you both agree on those matters..I think the best advice I can give you....truly...is to take your time. : ) From my heart...to yours....! : )
2006-07-05 06:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know it in your heart. Plus take
your time with a relationship. There is no
rush. As time goes by your will become
more sure. Bad relationships are not passed on from one generation to another.
Bad relationships come from incompatibility
with one another. Good luck. She IS out
there waiting for you!
2006-07-05 06:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Barb S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say find a friend first. If you and a gal can get along great as friends than you should have few troubles as friends. My man and I got together as friends, then best friends, then road dogs, then we ended up married. It was the next logical move for us, so we did it. 10 years of marriage later here we are......................
2006-07-05 05:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don`t LOOK for a real woman for you.just relax,date girls...that will help you understand what you want or don`t want of you`r future wife.relax.....
p.s.choises that your relatives made.....so what?it is not in your genes to make wrong decision.
2006-07-05 06:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by melita s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think for yourself. And be the master of your own life. Thats the key.
2006-07-05 06:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋