When i have sex it hurts sometimes and i dont know why. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months so i am comfortable with him and relaxed. I am "ready" for the sex if you know what i mean as in im not dry and when he enters it hurts like im too small for him. If we use lubricant like KJ it goes in better but stings like mad. has he cut me a little bit in foreplay? and thats the stinging? please help its driving me mad! sensible answers please thanks x
2006-07-04 22:32:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
A lot of sexual lubricants "sting" or "burn" a tiny bit when you use them, they are designed to bring more blood into the genitals to make them more sensative.
As for the painful tightness I would say that sometimes your body is not as ready as you think you are and you need a little more foreplay to make your vagina readier for penetration. Get your boyfriend to stimulate your girly parts a bit more before you have penetrative sex and things should go a bit more smoothly (and a little more pleasure in your genitals can't hurt can it?) after all you can't be too turned on!
Remember that everyone's body is different and that we change from day to day so sometimes things will go more quickly than others just be patient and magical things happen.
I hope this helps. Have a great day.
2006-07-04 22:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 18⤊ 3⤋
foreplay as in oral? or something more? fingering... because i kno if he isnt careful that can cause some irritation and possibly cuts... the stinging is probably from the ky jelly...i have had that stinging before... and i didnt have ne kind of cuts.. was it a stinging feeling or a burning feeling? ... ur too sensitive there to use it to have sex.. ive only really heard of it being used for anal... i still hurt a little when my boifriend is entering me but when we dont use a condom it doesnt hurt as bad.. stupid move i kno.. but we use birthcontrol.. it could be the condom if ur using one.. if not he could be too big but i doubt it.. ask ur doctor what you can do about it if this rambling didnt help at all
2006-07-04 22:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure sex is mostly painful even as he's too huge (lengthy). you could try the region of you on excellent this is the desirable reason you administration the penetration. do no longer use missionary position (with him in the back of) which will be painful if he's too huge. also your cervix/uterus may each from time to time shift position like take position or something. that could want to also reason discomfort in the time of sex yet more desirable than in all chance he's too lengthy or huge. (some men and stupid women imagine a large penis is to be wanted yet extra usually than not that is unsightly for women)..
2016-11-30 07:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by dryer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not relaxed enough. Get him to use his tongue for a long while but don't let yourself climax. Stop and then let him enter you. You'll be fine.
2006-07-04 22:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean i have been with my husband for 8 years and eversince we were teenagers, everyonce and a while it hurts and its kindof like cramping i have no clue why though
2006-07-04 22:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by frenchvanilla414@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have forgotten to take off your knickers before entry.
2006-07-04 22:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It hurts when it's done the wrong way...
2006-07-04 22:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Sherluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to undergo fingering.Then leaking and also you have to tell your bf to eat your ***** it feels so great.If your ***** got wet you may proceed to the .........
2006-07-04 22:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋