My husband and I are divorcing after a tumultuous relationship. He has not been there for our two children and did not even want the second. I have allowed him to do a lot of damage in our lives. He has several personality disorders and will not stay in treatment. There is also misuse of perscription drugs and so much more. Because all of his relationships are exploitative in nature, he has no qualms about going in and out of anyone's life if he needs something from them. I don't want this happening. I don't want to be looking over my shoulder wondering when he and his family or he and his new girlfriend will try to take my kids from me. They fight dirty and victimizing others is their method of uniting.
I think my husband would volunteerily terminate his parental rights, in order not to pay child support. A person from Legal Assistance told me that the state will not go for it because they want to get from him the $ they are paying in Medical. He has a lawyer. I can't afford one.
2006-07-04
21:48:27
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It doesn't look like his lawyer will listen to what I have to say, even though a smart attorney knows this can gain him info that will benefit his client. It is vital that I not have ANY communication with my husband. It just starts everything up again. Legal Assist. will not provide an attorney because there is not any property to divide.
My husband has under 500./mo. in income that is on the books from disability. So the state couldn't get much from him anyway. The termination of parental rights is in the kids best interest. How do I accomplish this? I was hoping the attorney would act as go-between if it would benefit his client. A battle would rack up money for him but the termination of rights is business that he could handle.
What do I do to get this accomplished? Understand, that if in the future he is in treatment and able to be reliable to the kids, I would let him have a relationship, parental rights or no.
2006-07-04
22:05:58 ·
update #1