My friend got 2 know this guy by a missed call on this year May. Both of them in same age , 22 years old & they became friends after some quarell.
His guy is handsome ,diploma holder, own a electrical company , honest ,respectfull ,responsible , loves his family very much ,less of friends ,still virgin & single. Meanwhile,my friend she's pretty ,doing Degree in Law ,virgin & single.
On last year November his ex gf broke off with him after 6 years with him. So he could'nt take it & committed suicide (stabbed himself at ex-gf house) but he survived after gone through an operation. So,after this incident he is not dare 2 trust any gals bez he had suffered mentally & pysically a lot. But ,after he got 2 know my friend ,he is very happy & less thinking about his ex-gf bez he like my friend's politeness ,kindness & he always tell her that ' WHY DON'T I KNOW U 6 YEARS AGO '.
So, on June he admitted that he loves her & he will be happy in his life if she become his wife.
2006-07-04 20:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by Dolly_06 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Do they mean 4 each other?
2006-07-04 20:47:05 · update #1
Do they mean 4 each other?
2006-07-04 20:47:15 · update #2
Everyone needs to be loved.
2006-07-05 01:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by kyeann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
His past is NOT a pattern for his future. Every new day, he has choices of what his experiences mean to him. He has the free will to choose. If he allows his past to ruin his future, he has learned nothing in this life. Some people who have had terrible, evil experiences happen to them have gone on to have wonderful, rich and fulfilled lives, whereas others going throu the same experiences have shrivveled up and died. Why? what is the difference between the two? The one's who survive and thrive, choose what their experiences mean to them. They learn from them and grow. the do not allow those experiences to hold them back from fun, joy, happiness, love.
Anyone who says I can't love because I was hurt before, is giving in to fear and is bulsh1tting themsleves. They can love, in fact they deserve to be loved even more. they have to allow it. Accept what happened to them was not justified, was a learning experience. Accept it, learn and grow from it.
He can grow and become a loving partner for your friend. Go on ebay and buy the Tony Robbins Get the Edge CD's for your friends new guy and make sure they BOTH listen to them all.
2006-07-05 04:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mike H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the girl wants her back, then they are meant to be. The girl should first assess, is this guy she is with completes her completeness? Does it make her more of a person when they are together? If so, then she should say yes. If not, then she better say no. Its either she hurt the guy or make herself suffer because she is spending her whole life with a guy she don't love.
2006-07-05 06:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by coolblueacid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy has serious mental health issues that need to be addressed before he can maintain a healthy and stable relationship with anyone. I fear for your friend. She may be headed into a troublesome era in her life. Her guy could be a danger to himself as well as her.
2006-07-16 17:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like this is the girl he was probably meant for. If i were him, indeed, i'd probably never want to get close to another girl. But he obviously wants to put the past behind him and try again with her. Granted it's her life and they have to decide on their own, i'd have to say go for it. i just pray everything works out for them both.
2006-07-05 03:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by matrix_fister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her life. As long as she gets her tubes tied and does not bring any children into this world w/such an ustable father and mother. You marry someone w/the same level of psychosis as yourself so...
2006-07-05 03:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by chill'n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
His first love wasn't the ONE. But now he has a chance to be with someone who is really special for him. I feel he will cherish her as a true treasure.
2006-07-17 13:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by ANGEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be scared if i were her because if they got married and it turned out bad i would be scared because he could commit suicide but if they didn't get married he might still commit suicide or sumthing like that because he just couldn't take it...well that probably didn't help any... might of just caused more worry sry :(
2006-07-05 03:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because nothing is wrong with him it's just he was really broken hearted and tell your friend if they date not to hurt his heart again.
2006-07-05 04:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever in his life has occured is the bad patch, he should forget it and lead a new life with that new girl.... and she can accept his offer and they can both be happy....
REMEMBER "SUICIDE IS NOT THE SOLUTION TO ESCAPE LIFE"
2006-07-05 03:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by dancingdoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋