i wanted to have sex and she was to tired but she gave in and let me anyway now she hates me
2006-07-04 20:41:45 · 14 answers · asked by canibus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husband has done that to me. i hate it. i hated him for it. i felt like i lost a piece of me, he took my dignaty from me, i would compare it to rape but with out the violence i was still unwilling. and no i didn't enjoy it. i felt betrayed.
don't you ever do that again to her. she deserves better than that.
you are not a man, you don't think about anyone but yourself and above all you are a coward.
2006-07-04 21:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by mellisa m 2 · 5⤊ 5⤋
She probably gave in simply from being to tired to keep telling you no, if u kept pestering her to the point that she finally just basically laid there and let you get your jollys from it, then you did force her.. Shes your wife , she deserves your respect , your love and your understanding, and all u did was treat her like some play toy..
Boy you better start doing some serious back tracking , go get the flowers and the u may want to buy some chap stick cause its time to kiss some serious azz..
2006-07-05 04:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did in some way force her, by continually pressuring her. It was only a pleasure for you, not her. That's wrong and that may be the main reason why she hates you now because you just wanted to selfishly satisfy yourself. Also did you try and give her any kind of pleasure at all during sex? Or did you just go for it and left her high and dry?
2006-07-05 03:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think her opinion carries more weight than yours here, you should have let it go and not doing so was very selfish and ignorant. all you can do now is tell her you honestly are stupid enough not to realize how big a deal this is to her and that it will never happen again and you would never intentionally make her feel like sex was more important to you than her feelings are..blame it on being a guy blinded by his hard on, she'll believe that......its the only shot you got! good luck and try to pay attention in the future! whatever you do don't try to use more sex to get out of this one, she'll just think you are only apologizing to get more and are still only focused on your dick!
2006-07-05 03:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot force a woman to give you something related to her most intimate feelings unless she is convinced of it or wants it. But making a big issue out of it is silly too. She ought to forget what happened and carry on as usual. Just have a casual, friendly talk to her and tell her that this experience shall never be repeated again. Best of luck to you both.
2006-07-05 03:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she told you she was too tired, you should have respected that. She probably gave in in lue of you pestering the crap out of her. Naturally she's going to be angry that you couldn't just accept not tonight for an answer.
2006-07-05 03:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you feel better????? thats so shitty dude!! How would you like to be a Kcum Catcher a few times! Then Roll over!
Bet ya didn't even let her get )))her's((( either!!!
Your F_ck 'n Selfish Really!
We all Hate you!!
2006-07-05 03:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by rpm5150365 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her tht u couldnt resist her and she looked sexy all the day and bring her a gift take her to hotel and make her happy try to look at her all the time saying how much she turns u on and that ur so sorry
2006-07-05 03:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by stloa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha you suck! Enjoy being hated. She's using it as an excuse to not have to sleep with you.
2006-07-05 07:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offcourse she will hate u becos u don't respect her feelings
2006-07-05 03:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋