not only this if i cant pick her phone call then she calls on the office landline or my colleagues cell phone just to check what am i doing ? After my office she dnt even let me eat my dinner properly instead she ask me to talk on phone with her (coz we dnt live the same city).At nite when itz around 2 am ...sleeping time she only blames me that i m avoiding her .What type of behaviour is this ????
2006-07-04 20:25:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
obsessive, posessive and needy..you need to straighten her out right now and certainly dont marry her until its fixed. just explain, as nicely as you can, that she can NOT call you at work all the time and if you have a chance you will call her. she has issues and if you play in to her insecurities now you will end up spending your whole life doing it.
2006-07-04 20:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie Fatal Instinct, She is way too obsessed. Also it can be said that those who fear infidelity have been unfaithful themselves. (Tit for tat) She may be afraid of you making a mistake she already has made. So she's driving herself crazy.
She is cheating on you man, But you may have a hard time proving it. Best responce for her is "What are you acusing me of, or what do you think I'm doing, Are you afraid I'll be making a mistake because you have made one?"
Good luck with this one. My suggestion s cut her loose.
2006-07-05 03:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by lovpayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing man is she a Scorpio cuz man well just be honest man cuz if your not you'll snap and probably end it so tell her your not avoiding her you just need time to work or sleep common and tell her you love her and you'll call her at a certain time shes probably just trying to keep close.
2006-07-05 03:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by T.J. W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immature, disrespectful, distrusting and controlling. I'd rethink what you're getting into if I were you. This is going to be a very possessive woman and you obviously are not a guy who is going ot be comfortable with that. Seems like a major mismatch....for any guy.
2006-07-05 03:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's head-over-heels, in-love-crazy about you.
The reason why she claims you're guilty of avoiding her, may be because>>> she's hurting because of wanting you to be as crazy about her as she is about you.
She may not realize it, but her actions may be showing you the way she wants you to love her... deeply.
Women generally want a lot of>>> their man's love, his undivided time & attention.
Women are emotional creatures... meaning that they want to give & they need lots of emotional love.
2006-07-05 03:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over protective? I don't know maybe you should just call her more often? Something that makes her call you less would be good. I'm not very sure. You should talk to her about it.
2006-07-05 03:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by jbs5655 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems to be very insecure. She probably is doubting your affection for her - making her super clingy. She needs to be reassured that you love her. Once that is explained, then tell her you are getting frustrated by her actions and you need to be able to do your work.
2006-07-05 03:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Misc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is inlove with you... and she thinks you're cheating on her. This is the million dollar question.. how to fix a broken woman?
2006-07-05 03:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Chris M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if shes doing such things go talk to her directly that she is being too possesive n if she dosent understand shes not ur type. imagine wat would happen after ull got married beter talk 2 her now if she dosent understand tel her tht it just wont work out this way it would be better if we part our ways
2006-07-05 03:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by cute gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is very insecure. She needs something to do. Something is causing her to be very jealous.
2006-07-05 03:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋