Don't answer if you've never cheated. I'm not asking you to so. But if you can own up to it...share. You just might help some other woman comptemplating it. Keep it Real!
2006-07-04 20:22:59 · 7 answers · asked by No shame, No game 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my wife cheated on me, she had an affair with someone at her work, i don't know the reason and i don't care to know it anymore.
end result, i found out and gave her an ultimatum, me or her affair, she chose her afair, now we are divorced, she is 2 years behind in her child support, i don't want anything to do with her, she has no job, her boyfriend has no job, he beats on her daily and she cries all the time and wants to come back, she lives in a run down apartment because she has no money or car or anything
i stoped listening to her and so she pesters her family and mine to speak to me on her behalf, my mother used to hate her and now feels pity for her and tells me to talk to her, i don't.
i figure i live a better life, at least i have a house and my daughter and a good job.
my ex left with what she came into the mariage with, absolutely nothing, but now she has even less
2006-07-04 20:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated to hurt him. Then I left him. Once he knew I was leaving him, he proposed. At that point he wasn't aware of the cheating, or the fact that I was leaving him to be with the guy I was cheating with. So I told him. In detail. Watching him be emotionally destroyed is a mental image I now can't get rid of. It was like that Simpsons episode where Lisa breaks Ralph's heart, and Bart tells her you can pinpoint the exact second where his heart rips in two. It's true. You can pinpoint the second. However, I don't feel bad for leaving him or cheating on him. I was no longer in love with him, and if i'd stayed I would've cheated again and again and again.
2006-07-05 00:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have cheated before on my boyfriend with a man that I didn't like, but i always knew that it was just a one night stand, and it wouldn't last, and no one will ever find out. The reasons for that are. I was horny at the time my man was not home ~ I haven't seen him forever so any man looked good ~ I wanted to see if I wasn't just good enought to satisfy my man, but also others ~ and also to show the other man waht it is that my man gets everynight, to make him respect my man more.... i don't know..other wise i never left my man, and I told him about some of it. and he forgave me, he loves it when i tell him, As long as I don't bring in STDs....he says..i love the guy.
2006-07-04 20:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by You're giving it all away! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is genuine not all adult males cheat. i have wide-spread of circumstances the position a guy would cheat because he's not getting his needs met at abode. when we sense like that we refer to our girlfriends as an outlet. yet adult males do not often have that help equipment. plenty cheat because of ther insecurities. yet definite, women persons cheat merely as a lot yet we are often neater(sneakier) and do not get stuck. you could take lower back a cheater if the forged outweighs the undesirable, yet he could quite be sorry and be prepared to do what it takes to achieve have self belief lower back, being to blame, undemanding, anticipate to have the phone checked, perhaps substitute the phone huge type altogether... maximum significant is Dont seem for It! that would want to stress someone loopy.
2016-11-05 21:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my first husband, but only after I caught him in bed with my friend (who had been a bridesmaid at our wedding). We had split up for about 2 weeks and although I was married on paper my relationship was over. It is still cheating I guess.
2006-07-04 22:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When me and my now husband we're dating, I cheated on him(because he wasn't around and I thought I wanted more than I had). End result... he cheated on me, we fought forever, finally got over it, learned to trust each other(as well as me not constantly looking for what I thought I was missing). We learned to compromise and trust and now we're married (very successfully :) for almost a year now.
2006-07-04 20:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cheated because i love to play,i enjoy to catch the"fish"...we are all born with hunting instinct,but some people don't let them free,don't want to follow them
i feel strong,i feel powerful
2006-07-04 21:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by carmenbella2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋