i am 15 hes 14 yrs old i just want ot hear your opinion on it and i always wanted a little brother
2006-07-04 20:05:19 · 16 answers · asked by help_me0113 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
we are both guys too
2006-07-04 20:11:05 · update #1
Well, I met one of my best friends when we were 10 and 11. Somewhere, we did share the thought of being the brothers we never had, and were even sort of "adopted" by each other's families.
You may not even know this guy in 10 years; yep, it's a possibility. So yeah, enjoy it while it's here. Some of the best friends around are a lot like siblings anyway, so keep that in mind; an ease and comfort that you don't just find. Even so, you relate however you want .. labels are more often for security and esteem. You two are best fricken friends .. now go and kick some a**!
By the way, almost 25 years later, me and my buddy are still very good friends. We've got different lives but somehow take a little time to stay close. I was a best man and his kids call me "uncle". Wild, but whatever. There's a unique comfort in long-time friends.
p.s.: What's with the guy talking about being gay?! Lighten up. Aren't we in an enlightened society? Anyway, ciao.
2006-07-04 21:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mark P 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the age that you two are at, on the grand scheme of things you, have to look at this logically and say, there is a 90% chance you wont even know him when your 25. So, Enjoy the time you have as young adults and forget about the brother thing because it will only cause issues later. Just be best friends and leave it at that.
2006-07-04 20:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by mindscape 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is great thing if you want it to have such a relationship. Brotherhood means you both have something in common that cannot be explained. You may trust each other more than you trust your parents or not. But most importantly, you both will help out each other when things are tough. Even really brothers and sisters do not get along.
2006-07-04 20:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by wat~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong and try to live on your own, dont be spoil brat. To have a lil bro because of you are lonely, will somehow leads you to be gay, beware of that as at your age youre still fragile and easy to be manipulated. Concerntrate on your study, and socialize with the boys next door.
2006-07-04 20:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Hafiz Rafar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, he's your friend not a surrogate family member. Just be mates cos then u can have more fun. I wouldn't wanna hang out with my bro yuk!
2006-07-04 20:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by just-dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I have 3 brothers its great and you now then that he'll never sleep with you girls or cheat you so that's a bonus
2006-07-04 20:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by T.J. W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then it seems OK. The question is.... do you think of him as a younger brother?
2006-07-04 20:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by katrina b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depend on u...if u want to him to be ur lil brother..it's up to men
2006-07-04 20:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by nTeEnSe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is!
2006-07-04 20:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Of The Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea
2006-07-04 20:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋