...or is it better to take her out, get her very very drunk and then try and take advantage of her?
2006-07-04 19:50:37 · 23 answers · asked by Loser 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
if you truly like this woman take her out, have great coversation drive her home. Show her respect and in time you wont have to take advantage of her she will give it up and you wont be anther piece of crap man if you dont like her skip the date and move on. Just remember this is someones daughter or sister do you have a daughter or sister will you have a daughter someday think aboiut those things before you hurt or take advantage of a woman its guys that think like you that I beat the crap out of when my daughters come home crying
2006-07-04 19:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by theoz man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to cook for a romantic dinner for a girl on a second date, or you could take her out but DO NOT get her drunk and DON'T even take advantage of her. You wouldn't want to be charged with rape or anything, would you?
Actually, it also depends upon the type of girl you are seeing right now. If you really want to be a romantic and if you want to give it your personal touch, then by all means, cook for her. Some girls would be very touched (because not all guys do know how to cook). Or you could take her out (if you really want to impress her, and if you do not have a care for the expenses).
Good luck!
2006-07-04 19:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Emz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that when a man and a woman get drunk together that it is ALMOST ALWAYS the man that gets charged with rape, if anyone? Isn't it just as compelling that the woman got the man drunk and that she took advantage of him in his impaired state?
As for cooking dinner on a second date, I think that is probably a little TOO ROMANTIC for a second date for most girls, and she would probably like some time to build trust in you and your discretionary practices before sojourning to a more secluded location together. Not that I am not a HUGE FAN of cooking dinner for dates, but usually it takes some time to build trust at a mutually acceptable rate to allow a relationship to develop in its own time.
2006-07-05 07:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you've made it to a second date and there is a chance for compatibility then a romantic dinner is good because it is an opportunity to talk and get to know each other without external distractions. It's not just about sex but a chance to interact. You have everything to gain and nothing to lose - unless you ruin the meal.
2006-07-04 20:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by F.T. Ward 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes- you should. Make sure she'll like what you are cooking and always serve something chocolate for dessert- same effect as booze but no regrets. Be ready for the relationship that follows and enjoy.
p.s. If ya wanna be a Man- just make her dinner, watch a movie- then let HER make the move stud. After all, you cooked- why do all the work. good luck
2006-07-04 20:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jack C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In contrast to what some of the people have answered on this question, I think that you really should only get to know this girl if you plan on marriage. Now i may sound like your mom but you can't be younger than me.
Religions in christendom such as catholicism have had their standards decline first by saying that sex is okay before marriage and then that marriage isn't even necessary. Isn't the Christianity supposed to be based on God's word and not man's?
Jehovah also wants you to respect your female counter and love her as you love yourself. In other words respect yourselves and quit thinking that every girl out there is chasing after a piece of your stick, man.
Just be yourself instead of a mask and see if she really likes you, and don't break her heart.
2006-07-04 20:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by Don Hasford 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously by you, even mentioning that you would get her drunk and take advantage of her you don't care about her. So...Your best bet is to move on and find someone that you can respect and forget about the woman that obviously broke your heart!
2006-07-04 20:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by mindscape 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have won all my dates including my wife on the premis of #1 my cooking and #2 my love for children and family.
2006-07-04 19:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by kb9zlt_19582000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are really in to each other and all that i guess you could make her dinner but if i were you i would take it slower and take her out but DON'T take advantage of her cuz you'll never be able to make that romantic dinner for her =]
2006-07-04 20:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a million dollar question get your mother to cook the meal
then say you made it ouch you never take advantage of any date be a gent all the time
2006-07-04 20:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by paladin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋