I TOLD HIM I HAD PILLS BUT I DIDN'T AND I AM MIGHT GET PREGNANT BUT I WANT TO SURPRISE HIM HE IS VER LOYAL AND WE TALKED ABOUT THIS AND HE LOVE ME SO I TRAPPED HIM KNOWING HE WOULDN'T TURN ME OUT BY MYSELF WIT HIS KID!!
2006-07-04 19:24:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
No matter how loyal he is and how he would feel if you got pregnant accidentally, he may not feel the same knowing you lied to and cheated him. It sounds like you need to grow up before you are mature enough to be in a sexual relationship--and this is the case whether you are 14 or 36.
2006-07-04 20:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you having unprotected sex? what, did he tell you he didn't have an STD after he told you he loved you? You're crazy and will probably contract something.
You having a baby to keep him is sick and completely unfair to that child. You might be bringing a life into this world that you can't take care of. No matter how much u two think you love eachother, your love will not buy diapers, sit up all night at the hospital when the child gets sick, or feed the child. Please rethink what you are doing before you ruin someone's life...not to mention your own. A child is a lifetime commitment. read LIFETIME. not something you can throw in your closet when he decides he doesn't love you anymore. Think about someone other than yourself.
You have not trapped him because he can leave and not look back whenever he feels like it. You on the other hand will have to carry that baby for nine months and then take care of it for the rest of his/her life.
2006-07-05 02:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by CrzyCatDC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont even have the words to make you see how dumb/naive you are.You asked another question wondering if your "loyal" b/f cheated on you so what does that say for him and for you trying to bring a baby in this twisted situation you call your life, your sick and obviously too young to understand what a real relationship and loyalty is. Grow up, mature and then think about bring a life into this world cuz your not ready. Oh and you'd be surprised if he ever find out about this he'll leave you and even if he doesn't he still might leave cuz thats what happens, alot of these young girls out here felt like they were in love and nothing could come between them and their man but look at them now single mothers like you'll be cause Karmas a bitc* and she gonna get you cuz youre serving your as* up on a silver platter.
2006-07-05 02:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by goldanclover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be loyal to you, but you are not very loyal to him. If you really cared about him, you would be open and honest and not be trying to "trap" him with lies. Get protection! You seem too young in mind to bare the responsibility of another life.
2006-07-05 02:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Leah S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You suck! You are not mature enough to have children if you are not mature enough to go to the doctor and admit to having sex. Also if you get pregnant on purpose and lie to him, he will hate you later, no matter how much he says he loves you now. If you didn't get on birth control because you can't afford it, then you sooooo cannot afford to be pregnant, it costs a fortune, so does everything the baby needs, so does the next eighteen years. you are not ready, just go to planned parenthood and get some pills, or go buy condoms. if you are embarrassed, buy them on-line and have them mailed to you.
2006-07-05 02:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Amber D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is very decietful and just wrong, your too immature to protect yourself and your body and use a condom and now you are lying and messing up not only your life but your boyfriends then you are too immature to handle the responsibilities that come along with having sex. Rethink everything do you really want a baby!! You are being foolish!
2006-07-05 02:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by slf620 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be trying to trap anyone just because you have a baby with someone does not mean he's gonna stay around just be honest with him about everything or might be alone with a baby to raise
2006-07-05 08:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by just_gethere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're being selfish if you don't tell him and if you actually care about him, youself, and the baby you might have, you better tell him cuz that's no way to start a family with a foundation of lies. You're hurting yourself and everyone around you. I hope you change your mind.
2006-07-05 04:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by green123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not trap a man with a baby he can still leave especially for lying to him
2006-07-11 22:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by needtoknow7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt' lie to your boyfriend. There are no guarantee's that he won't leave you and your kid. Especially after he find out you lied to him. Good luck!
2006-07-05 02:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by jetaimebeaucoup18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋