i mean the ones with feelings,(true-feelings) for you and the ones who will always be there.
2006-07-04 19:23:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well my lady out here ... "Life is so simple; we make it difficult". Perhaps you are only looking on the outerself in a man and not his inner self and maybe you are making some decisions faster than you can digest. So give it some time ..... Cheers!
2006-07-04 19:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by aaryan110001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are if they're good for nothing they think they're the hottest thing around because they can get with attractive women. so the nice ones are usually the ones who are less attractive, or have some insecurity complex, or are independent thinkers and do their own thing (artist, musician). so strike up conversation with one of those types, or if you luck out and find someone who is attractive AND nice, he's probably also shy so you'll have to make the first move. don't worry, you'll end up with the right guy.
2006-07-05 02:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Tammy you just answered your own question. "why do i attract the GOOD LOOKING, good for nothing men?" i guess its human nature to be attracted to good looking but women always expect a perfect relationship from an attractive guy! WHY??? men always know we are not expecting a good relationship from an attractive woman. if you do hey you're VERY lucky. most attractive people are shallow, vein, stuck up,arrogant... shall i go on? i have lots of feelings; i even cry at movies but then women say that's P#@%y or something like that. i care but no one cares about me because I'm not attractive so i get passed up because no (girl) wants to get to know me. I've had friends that were girls in my past tell me to my face i wish i could meet someone like you!!! I'm like I'm right here! "shrug" bottom line you can't have looks and good personality- women always want their cake and eat it to...no wait they don't want the cake either cause its too fattening-lol
2006-07-05 02:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you attracted to the weasels? Why do you feel you don't deserve a good man? Usually that's where the problem lies. Take a good long look at your life and see if you can find patterns that draw the wrong sort of man. Are you co-dependent? Are you an enabler? How's your self-esteem? What about your behavior? If you want a good man you have to be strong enough to claim one.
2006-07-05 02:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by michael s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure the nice guys are attracted to you too maybe change your pattern when dating, try being friends first even if you're very attracted to him. Tell him right now you're looking for a friend and watch your bond be more true when you take it to the next level.
2006-07-05 02:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is what you are attracted to. And maybe where you go to find guys is part of the problem also. Women tend to gravitate towards the same type over and over, even when they would prefer something else. I always say their picker-outer is broke. Maybe you need to have a friend (who has the type of guy you are seeking) to set you up with some different guys.
2006-07-05 02:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by bigrob 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you attract what you are familiar with. maybe you only notice the baddies. if one of the sensitive good guy types did notice you, would you go for him? imagine yourself with a nice guy--he's not gonna hurt you. he's dependable, true. are you bored? scared? can you handle being treated right and truly loved??? when u answer that, then the mean guys will fade into the background.
users can read people; know how far they can push you and if you will fight for your personal limits.
2006-07-05 02:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by fabulousisjane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that is the kind of guy that you are attracted to. you like bad boys or players. be careful when you use the term "nice guy" around men. nice guys are wishy washy wimpy dudes. good guys are what you are really referring to. stop falling for jerks and pat attention to the next nice guy that comes your way instead of blowing them off to hook up with a guy you know is bad.
2006-07-05 02:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by gonecrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im right there with you. i find the cheaters, liars, abusers, and crack heads. me and my family always joke about it, but its true. my ex husband was the finest thing imaginable, but then i found out he was living with another female, became verbally abusive, smashed up my brand new car, and starting smoking crack...all within a couple of months. at first he treated me like a queen, then became so possesive i couldnt even go to target to buy toilet paper! its ok...one day we'll find the one.
2006-07-05 02:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by mizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want nice caring ones, date ugly guys! You gotta make a choice in life, do you want a good looking man or a caring one!
2006-07-05 02:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋