2006-07-04 19:19:23 · 6 answers · asked by Icon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
two years? wow! how did you wait all this time?? hey, don't be scared just go for it. talk to her and be sweet. let her know you like her by some hints.. don't be shy to talk to her.. don't worry just give it a try.. if it didn't work out then don't wist anymore time and move on
2006-07-04 19:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having self-confidence is indeed important when you go out to meet people, not only the ladies. Self-confidence allows u to do things u want and desire with greater rate of success and satisfaction & it makes u feel good about yourself.
When u do, people around u gets the vibe and are attracted to you. But being shy at times is an endearing thing too.
Gals do not like guys who are too forward or aggressive as well. and when u know a gal, being too aggressive will only let her take full advantage of you or the whole relationship. So dont express urself too openly all the time.
When u approach a gal, just be yourself and smile and say hi. You may talk abt anything under the sun. just remember do not be offensive and insincere. When u meet a gal who has mutual chemistry with you, u will not need to ponder what to say next coz conversation just flow between u and her. Thatz chemistry my dear.
Be charming. Be sincere. Be yourself. Be witty and humorous. Be intelligent and be a natural. Be pleasant looking and presentable at all times.
Follow these rules and i m sure you are halfway there to meetin a gal of ur dreams.
Just relax and spend those energies on other stuff like family, friends, sports etc.
Let love find u,when u least expected it to be, rather than hovering and pondering about it.
Take it easy
2006-07-04 19:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the question is why ????( either the girl dont know u ..or u are not sure how will u behave wid dis girl when she come in front of u ...and biggest fear of all is what if she totally rejects the idea )...........the situation is difficult and u dont know what to do .............well now think if u never tell her that u love her or talk her ( u will never able to make upto her ..while losing the chance to involve wid other girls coz u still love her ).......
........and once u tell her that u love her ..the situation will be
...if she accpets ur proposal then u r the happy man ...
..if she dont then at least u r free to seek some other girls (i will say her misfortune )
..but do not blindly go and say i love u to her .. well i suggest u to do some homework before u propose
start the talk wid some common friend ....if u dont have one ..make a one .........communication interface should be decent and slowly hint her that u are intrested in her ( and respect others point of view too )....i bet u will succed ...and please let me know when u succed .......
2006-07-04 19:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by avi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youv'e be-friended this friend then just be blunt and subttle by telling her in the form of conversation include the phrase "is it me or am i getting the wrong signal" that will avoid setting yourself up for what you might not want to hear. that way you know how to follow up by not assuming if the feeling is mutual! besides if you are already friends than it won't be so brutal no matter what she responds- if she is a truely a friend to begin with.
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-04 19:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by flurtly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are scared to talk to her then she will never know how you feel about her. if you feel so strong about her better tell her now before she gets away.good luck.
2006-07-04 19:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she is entirely the wrong person for you or you need some Valium.
2006-07-04 19:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by syrious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋