Ok say I was pregnant how would I tell my mom? Being thats I am 15 and I take total responsibility and me and?

Question

my boyfriend both have jobs and I have already herd the speech of oh your to young. I just wanna how to tell her.

Answer 1

Hey Girl,

Be very honest with her.

Tell her your situation and that you have thought seriously about the consequences. Tell her that your ready to be a responsible and mature person, and that you would do everything to make things work out. That you and your b/f have jobs.

Perhaps you could convince her by weighign all the options. For example, keeping the baby or adoption. Its good to know your options.

Let her know that you love her and your sorry that if she feel dissapointed. I hope that she can be your source of strength through this! :)

Take care.
-D-

Answer 2

Take her someplace where the two of you can talk. Away from everyone and quiet. Let her know how you feel about the boyfriend and how he feels about you. Work into the possibility of being pregnant slowly. Tell her how you Will handle things if you end up that way and how sure you feel about the bf. You know He can change his mind faster than you can change clothes. Be prepared for that because guys say one thing and then do something else. At your age only safe sex should be practised. Your body may be big enough for sex but not big enough for birth. Naturally at 15 you are too young to consent and He could go to jail. Think about that.

Answer 3

No easy way to tell her but she will obviously figure it out. I would make your boyfriend sit in as he is just as responsible as you are and she will want to know what his plans are to take care of you and the child. You made a grown up decision to have sex, now you need to act like responsible adults and step up to the plate and tell her as soon as you can. I wish you both the best. Remember that there are tens of thousands of couples looking to adopt a baby right now and that is an option for you to consider.

Answer 4

My mom was the LAST person to know and I was 19 years old and scared shitless to tell her. She wasn't all that happy to say the least. You're just going to need to sit down and talk to her , and make sure there is someone else there in the room for a witness.
:)
After you tell her, she''l probably start buying baby clothes, and diapers, and baby stuff...so write her a letter, or tell her in person...or however you feel is best, you know your mom better than we do.

Answer 5

Just sit down .. Tell her i got a big suprise for you Mom.. And u ask her not to scream .. Tell her MOM IM PREGNANT .. are u happy??? then run away .. LOL
just tell her in a calm way. Ask her to give u oppinion .. She wont wan u to kill the baby ... She is human and she understands. Even she's angry she wont ask u to go for abortion. Dont worry
Things will work well..

Answer 6

Well I really do hope you're prepared for motherhood because its not as easy as what you have in your head right now..As for telling ya mother? Just come out with it..If shes like any normal parent she aint gonna be too damn pleased with it all..
And also, you say you have a job but after the baby is born you aint gonna have on no more? so how do you plan on supporting this child?
wait let me guess-welfare!

Answer 7

i was 17 wen i fell pregnant. I wrote a letter to both my parents explaining the situation, my feelings, my plans and obviously asking for their support also. Sealed it and gave it to both of them seperately giving them a certain time to open it so no one knew last.
My parents rang me after reading it and were both supportive. I had the chance to express what i was going through without being yelled at or interupted.

Answer 8

Id sit her down with a cup of caffeinated tea and tell her i need to talk to her..tell her flat out youre pregnant...

my dads a nut and he would make me give mine up for adoption if i got pregnant..if your parents have freaky rules and are nuts, i would flee the scene with my b/f by getting emancipated from my parents. if your parents are crazy folks, seriously, I wouldnt tell them. Id just get emancipated. some people have parents that dont care if they leave before eighteen...either way, if your bf is eighteen or older, your folks can get him in trouble or sent to jail...

you are not alone. there are many teens your age and younger who have been pregnant. look basically think about it and if your parents are alright, tell them. think about what you want to do with this situation and this child...if your parents will flip, you could get emancipated or just leave if they dont care. think about everybodys reactions to this situation before you act.

Good luck honey, I'll say a prayer for your situation.

Answer 9

I'm sorry to say that there is no easy way. Your just going to have to sit down and do it. And for your sake and the sake of everyone else that's going to be involved, you need to do it soon, so decisions, plans, and preparations can be made in advance.

Answer 10

If you have a relationship with your mother, she will understand, sit her down, and tell her what you plan to do, whether keep the baby or adopt it out, just do the right thing.