when my friend sleeps over we wake up with our legs and stuff on top of each other are we gay?

Question

we are heavy sleepers i dont know if we did anything or just really good friends is this a sign or something and do u think we did anything and can u give me suggestions to know if we really did do something

i am 15 yrs old and he is 14 yrs old best friends almost like brothers we consider each other a part of the family

Answer 1

No you're not gay just because you wake up with your legs and stuff on top of each other. I've been to plenty of sleepovers when I was younger and if i was sleeping close to someone we almost always woke up with some part of our body touching or on top of someone else. Nothing sexual happened, we were just heavy sleepers who tossed and turned around in the bed. it's no big deal but if you're uncomfortable with it maybe you can sleep in sleeping bags or something. If you really did do something with your friend I'm sure you'd remember it.

Answer 2

ok mate, im not sure how to anwser this, but the quick anwser is, does it really matter if you are or are not gay?

Now, i know what you are talking about with the leg thing, and that dosnt make you gay.

The best anwser i can give, is look inside you, do you feel like you did anything with him?

Also, how old are you? if you are between the age of 13 and 19, then its common for you to try to figure out these things. its human nature to wonder about it, dont let anybuddy tell you different.

This is a REALLY hard qustion to anwser, and sorry, but you are going to have to anwser it on your own.

I hope this helped, sorry i couldnt have been more help

Answer 3

You two could just toss around a lot while sleeping. Maybe you two are just not comfortable sleeping with other people in the room and thus your body moves.

Maybe you two are just cold and your bodies move closer together for warmth.

Unless you can get someone to watch or tape you while you two are sleeping, you can't really get a good answer.

Answer 4

I don't know, Are you gay? It sounds like two questions, one being: is it OK to sleep near your friend and two: is it OK to like it? What you are describing is perfectly innocent. If you did do something, you would know it because it would be a choice the two of you made. Relax. Even if you are gay, what is so terrible about that? If it bothers you, have your friend sleep on the floor.

Answer 5

get a video recorder that can record for a long time to see if you guys actually did anything..i know it may sound weird...but its one for sure way to find out if you did anything...and you can always burn it if you guys did do something....that doesnt totally mean your gay...it just means your heavy sleepers and move around a lot when you sleep...not a big deal...good luck w/ that

Answer 6

People your age are always worried about being gay. You would know if you are. Don't feel uncomfortable just b/c you are good friends w/someone. Don't worry about it. People move in their sleep. It's a fact of life.

Answer 7

If so,ething happened there'd be evidence nothing happened. As for your being gay or not, that's a mind not body thing ie. some gays marry, others choose celibacy, and others are active just like some straight people might expirement, some are celibate and others are active.

Answer 8

That does not mean anything.
People move around when they sleep and usually end up touching someone else if they are in the same bed. Dont worry about this, it means nothing.

Answer 9

YES, YES YOU ARE.
I'm just joking.
If you really want to solve the problem, sleep in different beds.
unless you just have those urges to lay next to him at night.
if thats the case, look into the gay factor.

Answer 10

No, that doesn't mean that you are gay...it just means that you are wild sleepers...now if you have feelings for them or can picture you two doin' it then....