2006-07-04 17:56:20 · 14 answers · asked by Loser 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I would'd bother trying to change anyone.
The effort is not always worth it. Agree to disagree.
All you can do is lead by example, i guess.
2006-07-04 18:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by The Magical Healer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information there to know where you are going with your question. If Jane is thinking about money because she is in debt and needs more, help her out with suggesting a better job maybe. If she wants more money because she wants to buy more "stuff," perhaps you can show her ways to get along without having to spend her limited resources on stuff she really doesn't need. The main things it be in a position to try and offer her alternatives.
2006-07-05 01:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by jcorcor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is a golddigger or she likes using people with money. She knows people will give it to her and she takes advantage of it. I don't know what you can tell her only except to be honest to her and show her how she looks. A few people in my family have this same problem and there is no way to help them unless there was no money to give. They need to learn to survive without money.
2006-07-05 04:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very shallow. Maybe she just has nothing else in her life, or she lacks self-repect and thinks having money makes her seem successful to others. Unfortunately , she is looking in the wrong place for happiness!
2006-07-05 09:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by gramwaah1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her anecdotes of people who have had to pay the price for greed. Gambling stories for example. Don't let her learn the hard way. Setting an example is a good start.
2006-07-05 02:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you? Every person is different. It is her goal and let her achieve it as long as she is trying to do it ethically. If she is not then try to tell her the importance of morality in life. But will not help, probably.
2006-07-11 15:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by dipu_greg85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is worrying about paying bills and she has no money tell her to pray or get a second job.If she wants money and always think about it then tell her money isn't everything.
2006-07-05 02:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Drop the shallow hag and find a real friend with some actual substance.
2006-07-05 03:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by eljonez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it her money issues or someone else's she is thinking about? I mean to say... Does she worry about it and need more. Or is she wanting someone else's?
If she wants to make money send her to my website. I would be happy to speak to her.... www.nationalpleasures.som
2006-07-05 01:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by nationalpleasures 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There once was an old man who was very wealthy. He said to his wife, "When I die, I want to be buried with all of my money." A few years later, he died. At the funeral, she wrote him a check.
You can't take it with you!
2006-07-05 01:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Me in Canada eh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋