I am extermly good looking, shy, higher educated, kind & non-dominant man . For my shyness I never date with any woman. But it very possible for me to do arrange marriage because in our society it is more conventional & I have bright future carrier.
I knew that women prefer dominant, uncontrolable , strong, more masculine, easy going, funny man. So I afraid if my future wife will know after marriage that I am not that kind of man, either she leave me or not. I see many jerk or bad boys do sex with many married women. So I afraid if my future wife introduce with this kind of man, either she cheat me or not. I knew that soft behavior means to female as feminine and female do not attarcted to feminine man. So how way shoud I treat with my woman. Please help me giving good advice .
2006-07-04 17:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by Bluelover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should be yourself when you first start dating and let the woman get too know you and what kind of a man you are. You don't want to seem fake towards her or else she will cheat on you if you do end up getting married.Try not to be to feminine she doesn't need another female friend she wants a man and lover.This is my advised to you as a woman and what I like.
2006-07-04 17:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Wherever you heard that information, you are wrong. There is no way in telling whether your future wife will cheat on you--only if you treat her wrong and without respect. Why are you bothering to give yourself all of this heartache for no reason at all? Sounds like you have a wonderful personality that any woman would want. Relax and just be yourself.
2006-07-04 17:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's immature it will drive her into the arms of another man but if she is looking for a soft hearted, caring, gentle kind of man then she will love you. Just look for someone who will love you for you someone who will be attracted to your shyness, intellegence, and kindness and who will love you for it. Treat your woman right, treat her the way you know is best if you really are a nice guy she should be lucky to have found someone like you. Good luck on finding your Miss Right.
2006-07-04 17:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by ooowhoalilmamaooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know many good women who married men like you. It's OK to be soft, just let her know that you'd defend her with your life!! You sound great & I think your wife will be very blessed to have you!
2006-07-04 17:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why fret when things has not happened. you know it and there's still time to relieve your fears. overcome it and never let it overcome you. you're a nice person and girls would love to be with you...
dont worry...you're in control of yourself.
2006-07-04 18:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋