2006-07-04 17:38:56 · 20 answers · asked by twinklecomfort 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes if the other person is willing to do the same. i think this society puts to much pressure on people only being with one person. Obviously everbody cant be faithful thats why this country carries the highest divorce rate in the world. women a lot of times make the mistake of dating wild boys and trying to make them into boyfriends which they cant be. Men also make the mistake of trying to change wild girls into housewives. its simple-if you are a homebody you shouldnt be trying to date a person that loves to go out. Im a faithful person and its easy for me because there are too many diseases and people with lots of baggage out there. I been with the same person for 8yrs and never once have i thought about cheating because i know that the grass on the other side is never as green as it may appear.
2006-07-04 17:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by thementalpatient2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes*
That depends on how strict your standards are. The emotion part is tricky. Sometimes you can make a new friend and there may be some spark there. It doesn't have to be acted on but if you are having those feelings is that being emotionally unfaithful? It doesn't mean you love your partner less or that there is something wrong, it's just a feeling you get from the other person.
2006-07-05 00:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes put God first.. the family that prays together stays together.. never use the word divorce as an option .. not to say there will not be problems but it is how they are solved that glues a relationship together..
2006-07-05 00:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Defiantly! I have been with the same man for 15 years and I have been faithful and in love with him. He is the love of my life. My world!
We will be married in two weeks and I plan on being with him, faithfully, till the dear Lord separates us.
2006-07-05 00:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by MBELL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i do
because i believe i have found my soul mate in my wife
she has proven to me she is loyal, in spite of me having children to other women
she has such a kind heart, she listens empathically and is non judgmental. this reflects in other people because subconsiously they are attracted to her, especially with children. (i've had to deal with and accept this fact for years...jealousey is a btch)
in spite of having many sexual partners in the past NONE of those women have even come close to taking me to the levels of sexual satisfaction as what my wife has.
we both have similar backgrounds (5th of 9 children and what comes from being a middle pin in our families) and share commonalities in our ethnic backgrounds.
although being baptised into different religions (catholic & morman) we both practise and share beliefs of a holistic nature.
however, this picture perfect relationship is not without its faults. i've found myself asking these disturbing question:
1. does my soul mate feel the same way as me? (after all i havent been so loyal to her and theres some serious insecurity problems in the relationship)
2. is this what my life has come to now? is there going to be any change? (our life evolves around helping others and not ourselves...to the point of doing without so others can be happy)
i want to reitterate what many parents have told their children because i know this to be true...you can be whatever you want to be (i can set a goal and achieve it...anything)...life is what you make of it, and this is especially true when it comes to relationships.
"any relationship is a TEAM effort...it cannot progress unless you BOTH agree"
"BOTH NEED TO COMMUNICATE AND BE OPEN-MINDED, THEN BOTH NEED TO WORK AT SATISFYING EACH OTHERS WANTS, NEEDS, URGES AND DREAMS TOGETHER"
REMAIN TRUE TO YOURSELVES AND EACH OTHER AND YOU WILL CREATE THE RELATIONSHIP AND LIFE AS YOU WISH
2006-07-05 01:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by Truth D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. 54 years for my parents.
2006-07-05 00:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you are with the right person.
2006-07-05 00:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by mj2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and that's after you've spent some time GROWING UP, and discovering what you like and don't like about yourself, first. It will then be easier to settle down when you know yourself, cause if you're not happy with yourself, nobody's gonna be happy with you!
2006-07-05 00:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! I sure do...And you know,it's not that hard to do either.Besides that,it makes life a lot easier in the long run.
2006-07-05 00:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-05 00:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kat33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋