Ok my friend is married and she has a huge thing for a guy that is a friend. He has told her in the past he liked her and now I dont know what to tell her. Do I tell her to go for it because you just have to live your own life or that she should work out her marriage?
I know she loves her husband but is torn b/w two guys! ADVICE PLEASE SO I CAN HELP!
2006-07-04 17:29:49 · 7 answers · asked by Bubbles100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SHE IS MARRIED!! Hopefully her marriage means enough for her not to be willing to throw it all away for a fling with some guy who she thinks is cute. If the marriage isn't working out, she should end it before moving on to someone else.
2006-07-04 17:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is be her friend, she will make the decision on her own, if she makes the wrong decision do you want to be a part of that? She needs to do some soul searching and find out if she really wants to be married at all, you dont look for something outside of your relationship if you are happy. She may love her husband but the consequences that will come out of going outside of her marriage for sex w/ someone else could be heart breaking for not only her but her husband as well, just be a friend and listen, I wouldnt offer any advice either way, let her make up her own mind and hopefully she will make the right decision for HERSELF.
2006-07-04 17:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by slf620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it's too late to have a thing for that guy. She said "I do". tell her to live up to her commitment. She needs to live out her life with the man she said she would live it out with. The days of messing around are over.
2006-07-04 17:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Bubbles Brain. Hell you know you want some action so go ahead and mess someones life up. You'd never suggest to your friend she take the higher moral ground....(now Bubbles is asking herself, whassat?)
2006-07-04 17:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Tommystune 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well if I was you, I wouldn't say anything. Let her make her own choice, because if something goes wrong either way, you'll be the one she'll blame!!.So just be nice, & be there for her as her real friend,& not her advisor. You'll keep your friend that way.! Wish her & you the best.!
2006-07-04 17:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by sqishieears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves her husband so much that should be your answer don't say anything
2006-07-04 17:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by MARK L SR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Springer is looking for you and your friend
2006-07-04 17:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by willieearlramon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋