For some reason, ALL of my friends that I ever made aren't really good friends. Some stole my lunch, some tease me and one even made me cry. What's wrong? I'm very nice to them but they aren't nice to me back.
2006-07-04 17:25:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And I'm 11 years old...
2006-07-04 17:27:37 · update #1
honey sounds like your friends are users and you are a total sweet giver... give them up and find some other friends ones who will appreciate a great friend like you.. don't allow people to be mean to you.. if you don't allow it then they can't do it.. respect yourself... i know you will find good friends .. God bless you...
2006-07-04 17:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I take it you're fairly young. So I'm going to say that nothing is "wrong". Teasing, stealing lunches etc. are what kids do to cover up their own insecurities. It's the "eat or be eaten" theory. Just continue to be a nice person and try not to get yourself into situations where they do these things. If they truly do treat you badly then they were never really friends in the first place. Talk to your parents and see if they wouldn't mind getting you into activities that involve people who enjoy doing the same things you do HINT: Take classes in marital arts, it will help with self discipline/self control and it will teach you strength and cooridation. Besides once word gets around that you know marital arts the bullys will be less likely to bully you.
2006-07-05 00:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find new friends, if you can. It sounds like they are not your true friends. Nothing is wrong with you, people who pick on others have nothing better to do if they feel the need to pick on someone that is their friend. But remember keep your head up and watch out for those friends if you decide to stay friends with them and if you stay friends with these friends one just might turn out to be a true friend. It is a decision to stay friends with them that I think could be a hard one for a little one like you to have to do. Just remember this, what ever you decide it WILL be the right decision. This is what I would tell my 10 year old daughter. Also keep thinking, this is a Big world there are new friends all around the world.God Bless you and good luck!
2006-07-05 01:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by andertonita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one really important thing that I remember my grandma telling me growing up and that is that in life you will be able to count on one hand the friends that are your true friends. You are young and have a long life ahead of you. Also, have you considered that you may actually be more smarter for your age then they are plus that could make then jealous. Don't worry, you will eventually find great friends. I am 27 and just now found my dearest friend.
2006-07-05 00:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by unbelieveably_nutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the sick and sad world we live in. Being nice doesn't always get you what you want. Actually a lot of the time, the nicer you are, the more you get s**t on.
But there is hope. My suggestion to you would be to start being more selective about your friends. If you look into someone's eyes and go with your heart, you'll find you can tell who the good people are. Only give your trust and your friendship to the people who deserve it.
2006-07-05 00:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think they aren't nice? Maybe what they're doing is their way of showing their love. People have different ways to show that affection. If you feel that way, tell them so that they'll know. If they'll change after, then they are really your good friends. But if they'll still continue those, BETTER not to trust them. Go with the persons you feel comfortable with. You cried? I experienced that.
2006-07-05 00:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good people like you are hard to find. STAY THAT WAY!!! You be you, and don't worry about everyone else. You are going to find people who are JUST LIKE you, who want friends just like you. It's so hard now, but someone will come along who will be in tune with you, and you'll click! SCREW all of these people who make fun of you, or tease you! They are fighting thier own insecurities!!! They tease you, because it makes them feel better! YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT!!! DON'T forget it !!!!!!!
2006-07-05 00:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The day that the first day of school starts back....
The first fall AFTER you have graduated High School...AND YOU BETTER! ;) You will look back and realize that none of that really mattered. NONE of that will define who you are or what you are going to grow up to be. It never really matters if you are cool, or if you were bullied...because in the end, this is YOUR life. Live it how you want to, become who you want to become regardless of how others treat you, or what they say.
First things first...be true to yourself, and when you are true friends will find you. I promise!
2006-07-05 00:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are people like that I know its happened to me but don't give up hope there are some really nice people out there and I'll tell you my secret to making friends I go to the person who is all by themselves and really shy people they really are friendly people and I wish you good luck with your friends but friends don't do that to each other
2006-07-05 00:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them and find another group of friends that are nice to you , like you and welcome you to be one of them , the group of people that are treating you that way they are not true friends , and they will be sorry later for losing such a nice friend like you . god bless
2006-07-05 00:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋