This has something to do with my friend whose gender preferrence is confusing....because he is a straight man in nature but it seems that he is somewhat different on the other hand.He likes very much being associated or contact with ladies,he likes to spend something just to feed or give chances on guys and maybe this could be a part of friendship that he has so he doesnt want to loose.I know him well that he is a guy but i do noticed or feel that he acted more than men do when it comes to friendship relations.He is my common friend which i dont want to loose because he is honest ,simple,silent and submissive.it is common to friends to hang out or spend time together,sometimes we go to bar to drink both of us however i do noticed and feel his eyes looking at me differently and it seems he has something to mean on me.is he a bi -male?
2006-07-04 17:15:55 · 13 answers · asked by dann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why don't you ask
2006-07-04 17:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by l l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in situations like this you just have to be blunt. I mean he is your friend you're not going to hurt his feelings. I say just ask him. And I don't mean bluntly ask him just out the blue. I mean maybe make a joke about it during conversation and see what kind of reaction you get. Or if that doesn't work the just go in for the kill and ask him. It never hurts to ask.
2006-07-04 17:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask...tell him the you are his friend regardless, and if he gets offended, tell him why you asked. Just be open and honest, seems to me that he would answer truthfully anyhow. So ask already ;)
2006-07-04 17:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by slf620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, he's a flake like you. Grab his crotch and have a happy life together, just don't paste it all over the internet or on Oprah.
2006-07-04 17:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by charlie_mon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you put it, "i dont want to loose because he is honest ,simple,silent and submissive." Is that worth losing? Does it really matter? I'm not sure what you mean by submissive, do you mean: quiet? subdued? shy?
2006-07-04 17:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by spolie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. I do not know him, so I can offer no true advice. If he is truly your friend, he will probably appreciate you asking him instead of the internet world.
2006-07-12 05:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WILL BE HARD TO DETERMINE HE'S BI IF HE'S NOT SURE HIS SELF. I AM A BI FEMALE..AND AT FIRST I DID NOT KNOW THIS. IT WAS MY HUSBAND WHO PICKED UP ON IT. WE WOULD WATCH "MOVIE" TOGETHER, AND WHEN WE PUT CERTAIN MOVIES IN, THEY WOULD AROUSE ME MORE THEN OTHERS. I STILL WOULD NOT ADMIT IT TO MYSELF THOUGH. FEAR OF WHAT PEOPLE WOULD THINK OF ME. STILL, I WILL NOT ADMIT IT TO CERTAIN PEOPLE BECAUSE THERE ARE A LOT OF CLOSE MINDED PEOPLE. HE MIGHT BE AFRAID TO TELL YOU IF HE IS, BECAUSE HE DOES NOT WANT TO LOOSE YOUR FRIENDSHIP. I TOLD MY BEST FRIEND AND SHE QUIT TALKING TO ME THE NEST DAY CALLING ME A LESBIAN. ONCE PEOPLE KNOW, WHO DO NOT APROVE OF YOUR SEXUAL LIFESTYLE, YOU GET LABELED. IF HE IS BI, LET HIM KNOW THAT IT IS OK WITH YOU AND THAT IT WON'T CHANGE YOUR FRIENDSHIP. HE MIGHT BE AFRAID TO EVEN ADMIT IT HIMSELF, THOUGH.
2006-07-04 17:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by jessiclay5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check between his legs, to see if he has both kinds of running gear.
2006-07-04 20:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Dew Drop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all..."submissive"? Are you a "bi-male"? Either ask him or just leave him alone.
2006-07-04 17:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask
2006-07-19 09:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by B tizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask
2006-07-16 03:06:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋