SHE ASKED ME FOR ADVISE AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL HER. SHE LOVES HER HUSBAND AND -LIKES- HER EX NOW THAT SHE HAS STARTED TALKING BACK TO HIM. SHE NEEDS TO KEEP HER MARRIAGE STRONG AND HEALTHY I THINK. HELP PLEASE.
2006-07-04 17:09:01 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Sapphira♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sHE STARTED TALKING BACK TO HIM BECAUSE HER AND HER HUSBAND HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH HELL FOR THE PAST COUPLE OF MONTHS.
2006-07-04 17:10:05 · update #1
Marriage is a commitment not to be taken so lightly like so many people DO! When she said "I do" that was supose to be forever, now because life isnt perfect for her she wants to go back to what she had?!?! She needs to grow up, marriage isnt easy, for either party, it is a constant ongoing process, DAILY! And as for you, you should just be her friend, listen to her, DONT offer any adivce as to what she should do, let her make her own decisions, would you want to be a part of it if she makes the WRONG decision? Just be a friend....and listen. She def needs to do some soul searching and find out what it is exactly that she wants out of life....she will not only be ruining her life but someone elses if she cheats.....Good luck!!
2006-07-04 17:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by slf620 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Well, I think your husband is jealous. Most guys, including me, are. I just recently went through a really tough time with my girlfriend. I accused her of stuff that she didn't do, involving some guy she was constantly talking to, and she said she couldn't stand my jealousy. But What I'm basically saying is that, talk to him, but not in large quantities. Being the jealous type, I can understand where he's coming from. But it doesn't mean that you can't talk to your ex who is now a friend. Just assure your husband a few times that he has absolutely nothing to worry about, because my girlfriend didn't do that until recently, and I can tell you, not being reassured that nothing's going on between you and some guy will drive him nuts. Oh and be honest about if you go to see your ex, and don't be secretive about what you do with him. But I would say bring an extra friend if you do, because it would ease his stress knowing you 2 aren't alone. Hope it helps PS Maybe you should tell him exactly what you just posted here.
2016-03-27 04:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to start put more effort in her marriage and clean her mess.
Tell her to stop talking/seeing her ex. The ex is nothing but a distraction for her to proceed and carry on. The ex is playing on her/manipulate so that she cant move on. Ask her ex to back off!
If she is stupid, she continues with her ex and there is nothing you can do of that. Rough times, if she wants the marriage badly, she would do anything to make it happen! In every problem there is a solution. She is in the process of adapting and huge transitional period of her newly wed relationship!
2006-07-04 17:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no excuse for cheating. 'Bad times' are common in all marriages. It's the strong people that have enough self respect and respect for their spouse that work thru it. It's the cowards that give in to the cheating.
Tell her to quit talking to the ex, and start talking to her husband.
2006-07-04 17:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that she doesn't love her husband ( not that I condone her action) I think that she sees something in her ex that she doesn't have or sees in her husband. Maybe it is the way that he talks to her or the way that he makes her feel. It just means that she has to talk to him (her husband) and let him know what is not working.
There is reason why he is the ex.
2006-07-04 17:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by biglips4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell her husband she's an immature idiot and please understand that she needs to take some time away from the marriage to rethink her marriage vows. Then after she gets smart they need to go into therapy. The ex should show some character and leave her alone.
2006-07-04 17:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to Divorce then go back with the X if thats what she chooses. Tell her not to cheat, everyone ends up getting hurt!
2006-07-04 17:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bubbles100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋