My brother gets to go spend the night at his GFs house
I cant spen the night at my FRIENDs house
My brother gets to go anywhere
I cant go anywhere
My brother gets to go to his friend house
i cant go to my friendz house
My brohers gf can sleep at our house
my friends can come/sleep at my house
IS THIS FAIR??
2006-07-04 17:08:24 · 15 answers · asked by Lili A. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Im 13 and his 18
2006-07-04 17:12:31 · update #1
I have talked to my parents but they just ignore me.. like i said nothin or they change the subject
2006-07-04 17:20:42 · update #2
age difference ?
2006-07-04 17:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by h_wallbanga 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem fair at all.
Could have to do w/ the old fahioned double standard where it's cool for guys to sleep around, but girls who do are sluts.
Today, u hear so much about young girls being hurt by family friends, etc. Maybe ur folks are trying to be sure ur safe
The age difference between u & bro could also be the issue.
No matter what u,I or anyone else thinks- u'll never get to the real issue or have any resolution 'til u talk to ur folks.
Try not to use blaming or offensive words like u always/never.....
and let them know it makes u feel like they don't trust u when... or you feel like.... when.
Good Luck!
2006-07-05 00:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by 1derous1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If your brother's younger than you, it's not fair. If your parents have tried trusting you before and you significantly violated that trust, then it's probably fair. In any case, there's probably more to the story than what you've related in your question.
2006-07-05 00:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by Steve H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're brother's a legal adult and you are still in middle school. Its totally fair. When you turn 18 you can do what he's doing now.
2006-07-05 00:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by neona807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be allowed to stay at your friends, I also think that your brother is allowed to do anything he wants because he's 18...he's basically an adult. So I think that you should be allowed out but it has nothing to do with your brother.
2006-07-05 00:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all just depends on your age. also if you are trust worthy,maturity A lot of things I'm sure your parents consider. I feel they are looking after your best intrest. hang in there!!! have your brother take you around with him maby.
2006-07-05 00:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the age differences!
2006-07-05 00:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not fair that you cant go places even if he can drive himself there, was it like that when your brother at 13 though?
2006-07-05 01:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kay-Jay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry youll be 18 and it will be the same for you soon :)
2006-07-05 00:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by nikki g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents tend to be over protective of daughters....But they should cut you a little slack!
2006-07-05 00:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋