I recently started going to this particular gym about 3 or 4 months ago, and i met this guy that works there. He is really nice and just cool to chill with. well at first we start just by saying hey and bye, or how are you doing, you know things like that, then as time went by he would ask me if i wanted to go out, or "where you taking me out to night?" and the only thing i would say to him is if he had a girl and if he did where would she like to go, you know so we could all go, because i took the relationship between me and him, like friends an that's it. i wasn't trying to get with him or anything, well as time goes by....mind you... he doesn't have a girlfriend, we start talking on the phone like everyday, we go out to eat, we see each other everyday, and now his just acting weird, like sometimes he can be the sweetest person and some times he acts like a total JACK ***! and i'm not sure why...please help
2006-07-04 17:02:58 · 8 answers · asked by PiNa PaRa La Nina! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't worry about why...if he's like this NOW, how do you think he'd be in three months of a serious relationship? Forget this musclehead
2006-07-04 17:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for you to sit down with him and have a talk. Don't allow him to treat you like this. If you do, you'll end up in a relationship you are not happy in. Have him explain why he's been treating you so differently and acting like a Jack a**.
Don't be afraid to ask him, he's certainly not afraid to treat you badly. Don't worry about hurting his feelings.
If he doesn't give you an answer that makes sense, end the relationship and move on. Sometimes it's better to just be friends with some people.
2006-07-04 17:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by Healthnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey could be schizo, like 'Tyler Durden' in fight club, and not even know it. There may be like 20 other girls in gyms across the country where he is getting girls like you tangled up.
2006-07-04 17:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is just moody or there might be something going on in his life that he is keeping secret; proceed with caution, my dear.
2006-07-04 17:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sound's like a guy who is into "THE CHALLENGE". Start backing up.If he start's paying attention to you again....you'll know!! He's a player,kick him to the curb!!
2006-07-04 17:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crap! Maybe he is assaulted by endless talk! blah, blah, blah... give the poor slob a break and SHUT-UP.
2006-07-04 17:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really can't help you!
2006-07-04 17:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Dan =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know for sure he does'nt have another?
2006-07-04 17:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋