2006-07-04 16:55:04 · 11 answers · asked by getatjayr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No
2006-07-04 17:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all a matter of opinion, of course. A strict catholic, bapist, protistant, anglican, etc. would damn you in an instant. Hell, you'd probably go to hell just for having such impure thoughts. However, after doing such a dirty act, if you went to confession or asked god for forgiveness and were of course TRUELY REPENTANT ( i suppose the sex would have had to be pretty bad for that to occur), you might recieve the forgiveness of god and save your soul from the hellfires for all eternity. An athiest would tell you there is no god and therefore no hell and would most likely offer themselves up to help you have that sex that you so despertely desire.
I don't know about hindu and muslim ideals, but in Shintoism there is no such thing as sin, and therefore you'd be safe to engage in premarital sex on temple ground without fear of hell.
Without premarital sex, the human race would never have made it very far up the evolutionary ladder if our ancient decendants were too worried about the consequences of doing the dirty deed. So let's not worry to much about it.
Before worrying about your eternal soul, why not give your mortal shell a though and if you do decide to take the plunge, remember to practice safe sex. Afterall, if there is a hell, it's best avoid taking the short road there.
2006-07-05 00:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by David A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me your question isn't about whether sex before marriage is ok or not. You state you understand about that. Your question seems to be about Hell. Can one go there for doing things that are wrong or in this sense biblically wrong....sins. Here are my findings on Hell, does it exist, does God send ones there.
Myth 4: Some people are tormented after death.
Many religions teach that the wicked will go to a fiery hell and be tormented forever. Is this teaching logical and Scriptural? The human life span is limited to 70 or 80 years. Even if someone was guilty of extreme wickedness all his life, would everlasting torment be a just punishment? No. It would be grossly unjust to torment a man forever for the sins that he committed in a short lifetime.
Only God can reveal what happens after people die, and he has done so in his written Word, the Bible. This is what the Bible says: “As the [beast] dies, so the [man] dies; and they all have but one spirit . . . All are going to one place. They have all come to be from the dust, and they are all returning to the dust.” (Ecclesiastes 3:19, 20) There is no mention here of a fiery hell. Humans return to dust—to nonexistence—when they die.
This doesn't mean that there is no penalty for biblical wrong doing friend. Other scriptures show that one who willfully sins (there is a difference between weakness and wickedness/willful sinning) will be punished with not being accepted into paradise where only the righteous are accepted. Think of it this way.....if Adam and Eve hadn't sinned, .....where would they be now? So, the opposite of life in paradise isn't some place of firey torment but simply...non-existence. Death. I'd shoot for life though, wouldn't you?
2006-07-05 17:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by ktltel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not automatically.Having sex before married is a great sin in line with moslem religion.But if you are conscious after your wrong doing,you must ask for forgiveness from your God Almighty.Allah is our highest forgiveness.He will receive your asking and forgive it if your asking made at a silent time after mid night and ask for forgiveness truly deep in your heart,not only in your mouth.You do not allow and must promise to your God that you will not do the same and other wrong doings..May God bless you and you do not going to hell.Islam forbids free sex.
Marriage is sacred and your virgin also is only for your formal husband.It is better if you get married with the man you loved and
had made a prepaid breaker.Do not too worry of your both future. life.You both must try hard to make all of your needs are met by good doing.God will help someone who try the best of their own living and hates someone to be a beggar,Giving other people is better than asking help from other people.Giving something to other and make him/her happy is more honorable...But Allah also hates someone who live luxuriously and wasting everything which is beneficial.Do not forget do all our compulsaries/obligations and do not do whatever forbidden by your religion.
2006-07-05 01:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one single act or sin sends us to hell. Jesus came to earth to die for our sins so that we could be saved.Our rejection of him is what seperates us from God and that seperation means eternal seperation in "Hell". God has set guid lines for our lives so that we can be happy and live within his will for our lives. Marriage is talked about with great importance in the bible. It is a union that God intended for a man and a woman, Within the realm of marriage God gave us a gift of sex. Sex is never just physical. Sex joins the spirits together. It consumates a union of oneness. If we make a mistake and have sex out side of that union. It is called fornication. It isn't pure. And you may have had sex with someone that God didn't intend on you spending the rest of your life with. He knows you better than you know your self. The bible states that God created you and even knows the number of hairs on your head. He also loves and cares about you. So he knows what is good for your life. If your consience is telling you that you have sinned or made a mistake, pray and ask God to forgive you. Tell him you made that mistake and ask him to help you prevent doing it again until you find the right partner for your life. Good Luck!
2006-07-05 00:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by mitzi o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you are not going to hell. There is no something you are supposed to do it is an idela, or goal that people set for society so it can aim to be a utopia in their mind. It is all about your personal goals, what you believe is right, and how you view personal salvation.
2006-07-04 23:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by Josh S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer no one
Would you buy a dress before you try it on. How do you know if you are compatible?
Also We tend to follow old ideologies, brainwashed into our heads, it’s like a bad habit, hard to get rid of change.
It’s what you truly feel inside, not what you were taught to believe.
Simple rule, if it does not hurt yourself or others, mentally of physically.
Will you go to hell, it's what you beleive or not.
2006-07-11 10:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Juggernaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but anymore virgins are very rare and it is ok to be a virgin , but just do not go out there and have sex . i means more when you both love each other I made the mistake of having sex and i look back and regret it everyday
2006-07-05 00:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people say that but, I don't think so. It is ludicrous. God loves us. Why on earth would he send us to hell. .... You should be in love with the person though.
2006-07-05 00:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's between you and "THE BIG DUDE" up there! Until then,you have to life with yourself.Good luck.
2006-07-05 00:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but even if it were true, you'd have a heck of a lot of company.
2006-07-05 00:03:18 · answer #11 · answered by Steve H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋