my mom left when i was young and left me with my lil sis that i have been taking care of...she is going to be 7 and im going to be 15....last saterday i started confrunting my mom about all the stuff that she has done to me and my sisters...and then she had to leave because i was starting to make her tear up....she is always on yahoo messenger...and that i were i was confrunting her....what should i do...i want to still confront her but im also scared....should i be scared??
2006-07-04 16:27:37 · 6 answers · asked by *Hello* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No you shouldn't be scared. You are only 15, you shouldn't have to take care of your lil sis. If your mom was old enough to have you she should have also been responsible enough to raise you. No offense. But you should tell her how you feel. It is good for you to express yourself.
2006-07-04 16:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be scared. You need to get all of these feelings out before it completly eats you up. I think the least your mother owes you is an explanation. You need to get her in person and demand answers and get everything out in the open no matter how painful it is for both of you.
2006-07-04 23:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO....you shouldn't be scared! You have a right to ask your mom questions. She's obviously feeling very bad about what she did and just doesn't want to talk about it right now. I honestly think that, in time, she'll come around and explain everything to you.
2006-07-04 23:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't feel scared. say what's in your heart. be honest,but tactful. right or wrong, she still has a side to express... listen to her to show mutual respect. maybe a face to face meeting with supervision (school, church, dr.office) can be agreed apon. hang in there. there may be wrecks along this road but that's why towtrucks were invented
2006-07-04 23:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by awmawy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shldnt be scared,but u shld think of the reason she left again after the confrontation,beleive me it isnt cos the confrontation makes her cry,it must be the reason she left you or the way u confront her.if u still want to confront her,then think twice,when u confront her, dont go judging her,or blaming her for wat happened.just ask her why and try to listen and understand her reason.and abv all forgive her.
2006-07-04 23:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by real4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scared just tell her the way way you feel !! goodluck
2006-07-04 23:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by foolishheart_td 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋