my boyfriend does'nt believe me that i'm still a virgin when he got me, because according to him there's no blood at our first night..
2006-07-04 16:22:12 · 7 answers · asked by hazel a 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
No, we can't. The idea that all women bleed upon their first penetrative sexual encounter is simply wrong: many do not. It is also a myth that the first time always hurts. It is also true that you can get pregant the very first time you do it. Rubbers don't break, either. If your BF keeps on accusing you, it's simply time for a new BF because this one is an insecure, controlling jerk.
2006-07-04 16:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is ridiculous in the first place that you have to "prove" your virginity to your boyfriend, you can break the hymen at a very young age, from bicycle riding, horse riding, many activities, many women do not bleed. And an OB can only tell if you are still a virgin or not, not how many men you have been with. Tell him to deal with the truth and accept it or move on!
2006-07-05 00:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by slf620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say from personal experience that not all women bleed. Nowadays, it is quite common for women not to bleed since many of us have use tampons, are athletic, or get a bit experimental with conveniently sized/shaped objects (any of which might cause the hymen to be pre-torn). Sadly, he has been very misinformed. Unfortunately, no one can prove otherwise to him. It is impossible for the docs to tell how many penises have been inserted into your vagina.
I disagree with another answerer here. Condoms can, and do, break. Typically, the more expensive ones are better quality and break less. However, if you buy a cheap, old, or otherwise mistreated condom (don't leave them in the car!), there is a higher chance of breakage.
2006-07-05 00:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by abceg12357 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they can't help you with this. The boyfriend is wrong about blood on the first night. It does not always happen and the hymen can be stretched by horseback riding and other activities of the sort.
2006-07-05 01:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by Buzz s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No a doctor can't tell. And to your boyfriend who is naive. Athletics and tampons and bikes can compromise the hymen in a lady.
2006-07-04 23:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by merlinsdragonfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you tell them. But they can tell if you are a virgin or not.
2006-07-04 23:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. They can't tell......
2006-07-04 23:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋