I'm sure you've probably read of something similar in those bulletins on myspace, it's where this idea orignated from...
I'm thinking about finding a girl in one of my classes at uni and seeing if she'd comply. It's going to be an attractive, intelligent blonde that my boyfriend would be attracted to. I'd pay her $XXX of money for her to try to sleep w/my bf and see if he'd do it. BUT she wouldn't touch him.. just have her flirt and see how he'd react.
He's talked abot proposing and I have this suspicion that he'd cheat. I'd like to test it, what do you think?
2006-07-04 16:10:42 · 28 answers · asked by NUTS4DUNCAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He has tested me many time in similar situations. I wouldn't mind if he tested me.. I'd actually encourage it bc I know I wouldn't "bite the carrot bc the grass is greener on the other side".
I know I'm hot, intelligent and classy.. so I need a guy to prove to me he's worthy.
2006-07-04 16:28:59 · update #1
ur a ***** u dont deserve him
2006-07-04 16:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not think that you are ready for a serious relationship. How do you think you would feel if he found a great guy that would compliment all of your likes and look just the way you like your guy for $XXX and did the same thing to you? If you do this and he does cheat than you both will be hurt. If he doesn't cheat but found out that you could not even trust him enough to talk out your fears where will the trust that is needed for a marriage. All of the males in my immediate family are huge flirts, we do not cross that boundary when we are in a committed relationship.
2006-07-04 23:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play with fire you will get burned. Don't tempt a guy. Not a good idea. Its very rare that women ever come on to guys...if a pretty girl hits on him, he will stray. If he doesn't, then he'll always wonder if he's still "got it" and he might eventually leave you....after all, he'll remember that one time, that pretty girl hit on him.
Don't risk it, its not cool, If you have to even propose this idea, maybe you aren't mature enough for marriage anyway.
Good luck.
2006-07-04 23:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by silatye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way. he will likely fail. I mean depend on the girl you get if tries hard enough he will give in.Or as long as nothing is happening he will at least talk dirty to the chick if she is flirting with him.
If I were him I would dump you for even thinking about doing something silly and insecure as what you are proposing.
2006-07-04 23:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a fun test, actually. It might make a good hidden camera show. But of course, be prepared to be honest with your future fiance and tell him about the test when its all over, and face that fact he might be upset that you don't trust him.
2006-07-04 23:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Spartacus007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you'd pay someone to do that, you either have trust issues or really good instincts and your boyfriend is a cheat. In either case, you obviously shouldn't be in this relationship. Save your $$$.
2006-07-04 23:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you shouldn't do that unless you honestly want to end the relationship. It sounds like you have some trust issues and you probably need to work through them. But not that way.
2006-07-04 23:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you don't trust him and if he finds out about your little test he will not trust you. If you go thru with this the girl you paid and your boyfriend may end up together and you would be alone.
2006-07-05 01:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hey hey! Hold on!
It's unfair to put any person to test. You wouldn't want to be tested, would you?
You would like to test because you want to judge, right? So you could decide. But is it fair?
Try to put yourself in the other's shoes.
'Don't judge, or shall i say, don't measure (by putting people to test), lest you'll also be judged by the same measure you used.
You don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow. What if you are put in the same situation?
Would you want to be tested and judged?
2006-07-04 23:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur risking the relationship by showing him the grass is greener on the other side..dont do it...let him love you for you, if you dont trust him there has to be a reason and if he is a good guy you do not desrve him
2006-07-04 23:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by dave g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dangerous. You may find out that your BF is (gasp!) human, and faced with temptation, he may fail you. Don't do it unless you're ready to break up with him over the results.
PS - I've thought about doing this to my husband, but if he found out he would kick my a** and then divorce me.
2006-07-04 23:19:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋